Yay, Griff! : NTs boundaries

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Griff, good for you! Be angry. You've just described several bad

relationships I've decided to cease supporting. A whole series

of relationships, actually, as I've been repeating it until it all came

clear -- just recently. Yep, I've parted with some folks who are not

likely to change what is, for them, a comfy relationship. It has not

been comfy for me. Now that I'm less confused about my own

discomfort -- part of that vast RELIEF that my Aspy dx gives me! --

I'm looking for people who need more than someone to grab on

to the short end of the stick! Yay! You are wiser than I. You've

likely figured this out MUCH earlier than I did! -Zer(SoCalAspy)

> I've just discovered that a " friend " of mine (and I use the quotes

very deliberately) has boundaries... <big snippity snip>...

> ...You're supposed to act as if we're the barest of bare

acquaintances. <<<<<<<<<

> That is not friendship. ... I'm angry.

> Has anyone else been in this position?

> Griff