Re: Vivian's posting / Jon

[Guest guest]

Thanks Hanle - I appreciate your response.

I no longer feel aggressive and having recognised the belief, felt the

shift and the need to attack dropped away.

I think there is something wrong with wanting to be liked if it

creates stress within myself - and the feeling of stress is the clue

for me. And yes, it's also not wrong, just part of the process,

noticing where I believe someone should like me to compensate for me

not liking me or even me not liking them.

The belief that came up for me was actually something different -

" people that use the work shouldn't be so lazy with their beliefs and

assumptions about others. "

As I said in my previous message, my projection :-)

One of the things I love about the work is that, when I am open to it,

there is a way of doing things differently, learning from each other,

rather than business as usual, voting, taking sides, etc, etc.

With thanks,

Jon