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Hello all,

My husband is a chronic pain patient from a neck injury 5 years

ago. He has an electrical stimulator and also on large amounts of

morphine. Ever since they told us over a year ago that there was

really nothing else they could do, he has been depressed and keeps

getting worse. He is on antidepressents but won't go to any

counseling as suggested by the Dr. He just wants to sit in his

recliner and the world go by.

I swear it is as painful for me to watch him this way. He thinks

the world is out to get him and is just plain prickly to be around.

He used to be the life of the party but now he won't even go out. I

am really concerned and don't know what to do. He won't talk to me

about it other than say " I'm disabled you don't understand " and he

thinks I want to leave him etc.

I am hoping that you can give me some insight from his side of

things. I know how much pain he is in and understand his

limitations probably better than he does but I hope that he can

figure out a way to deal with the pain in a way that would allow him

to go on with life and enjoy the many blessings that he does have.

Thanks for listening.

Heartbroken

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Posted

Thanks Kath, He sees the Dr for his refills next week I will mention

it to him.

Staci

Kath wrote:

I can understand this, my husband was much the same way. Cymbalta

has helped him quite a bit, he still is depressed and does not

interact as much as I'd like even when he is physically able.

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