Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 In a message dated 4/23/2004 10:29:42 PM Eastern Daylight Time, unicorn_vicki2@... writes: OK Anya you want to talk about your emotions that's fine, seeking someone to talk to ya that's fine as well. I wanted talks of Suicide stopped after a small incodent where two members where far from helpful in the discussion. Since the two members that may have caused the problems left. And so did the young lady speaking of Suicide. Anya: I think its ok to talk about your emotions and how you feel, and if one day you are in so much pain, you feel suicidal, Im sure thats ok to vent that and discuss with the members here..I think the incident Vicki referred to, was only because when someone did mention suicide, 2 of the members kind of jumped on her, and were not very sympathetic to her feelings, which was not right....this member in turn left the group, and we were worried about her.... If anyone has any problems or questions, feel free to email me anytime, as I know Vicki has not been feeling well and kind of stressed the last few days...If I can be of help to anyone, let me know.. Thanks! Moderator Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 In a message dated 4/23/2004 10:29:42 PM Eastern Daylight Time, unicorn_vicki2@... writes: OK Anya you want to talk about your emotions that's fine, seeking someone to talk to ya that's fine as well. I wanted talks of Suicide stopped after a small incodent where two members where far from helpful in the discussion. Since the two members that may have caused the problems left. And so did the young lady speaking of Suicide. Anya: I think its ok to talk about your emotions and how you feel, and if one day you are in so much pain, you feel suicidal, Im sure thats ok to vent that and discuss with the members here..I think the incident Vicki referred to, was only because when someone did mention suicide, 2 of the members kind of jumped on her, and were not very sympathetic to her feelings, which was not right....this member in turn left the group, and we were worried about her.... If anyone has any problems or questions, feel free to email me anytime, as I know Vicki has not been feeling well and kind of stressed the last few days...If I can be of help to anyone, let me know.. Thanks! Moderator Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 I appreciate your concern and that you took the time to write to me. I'm going to go on no mail for awhile to assess how I feel about the structure of this group. There may be 400 members but from what I've seen that last month, only about 20 actually post. Where are the others? Are they frightened to express their feelings? Did they forget they are even a part of this group? I did feel suicidal a few weeks ago and after two people jumped down my throat who knows where I would be right now if I hadn't found some other source to support me. Especially after a person accused me of not having fibromyalgia. We aren't here to diagnose and if we are then this isn't for me. We are all going through bad times, but bragging about being mean tempered and not usually apologizing to anyone aren't the type of person/people that I associate with in real life let alone on the web. Perhaps the person who wrote the message does need to take a break, burnout can be the result of taking on too much. And on that note, I'll put my Tide box away and go in search of like minded people, people who care and have compassion and aren't mean tempered unless they are in pain or have a valid reason. So on second thought....thanks for everything, for the information I received, for the few people that did offer support and those that offered research and compassion (ie...dash) Bye for now, Anya Re: ANYA In a message dated 4/23/2004 10:29:42 PM Eastern Daylight Time, unicorn_vicki2@... writes: OK Anya you want to talk about your emotions that's fine, seeking someone to talk to ya that's fine as well. I wanted talks of Suicide stopped after a small incodent where two members where far from helpful in the discussion. Since the two members that may have caused the problems left. And so did the young lady speaking of Suicide. Anya: I think its ok to talk about your emotions and how you feel, and if one day you are in so much pain, you feel suicidal, Im sure thats ok to vent that and discuss with the members here..I think the incident Vicki referred to, was only because when someone did mention suicide, 2 of the members kind of jumped on her, and were not very sympathetic to her feelings, which was not right....this member in turn left the group, and we were worried about her.... If anyone has any problems or questions, feel free to email me anytime, as I know Vicki has not been feeling well and kind of stressed the last few days...If I can be of help to anyone, let me know.. Thanks! Moderator Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 I appreciate your concern and that you took the time to write to me. I'm going to go on no mail for awhile to assess how I feel about the structure of this group. There may be 400 members but from what I've seen that last month, only about 20 actually post. Where are the others? Are they frightened to express their feelings? Did they forget they are even a part of this group? I did feel suicidal a few weeks ago and after two people jumped down my throat who knows where I would be right now if I hadn't found some other source to support me. Especially after a person accused me of not having fibromyalgia. We aren't here to diagnose and if we are then this isn't for me. We are all going through bad times, but bragging about being mean tempered and not usually apologizing to anyone aren't the type of person/people that I associate with in real life let alone on the web. Perhaps the person who wrote the message does need to take a break, burnout can be the result of taking on too much. And on that note, I'll put my Tide box away and go in search of like minded people, people who care and have compassion and aren't mean tempered unless they are in pain or have a valid reason. So on second thought....thanks for everything, for the information I received, for the few people that did offer support and those that offered research and compassion (ie...dash) Bye for now, Anya Re: ANYA In a message dated 4/23/2004 10:29:42 PM Eastern Daylight Time, unicorn_vicki2@... writes: OK Anya you want to talk about your emotions that's fine, seeking someone to talk to ya that's fine as well. I wanted talks of Suicide stopped after a small incodent where two members where far from helpful in the discussion. Since the two members that may have caused the problems left. And so did the young lady speaking of Suicide. Anya: I think its ok to talk about your emotions and how you feel, and if one day you are in so much pain, you feel suicidal, Im sure thats ok to vent that and discuss with the members here..I think the incident Vicki referred to, was only because when someone did mention suicide, 2 of the members kind of jumped on her, and were not very sympathetic to her feelings, which was not right....this member in turn left the group, and we were worried about her.... If anyone has any problems or questions, feel free to email me anytime, as I know Vicki has not been feeling well and kind of stressed the last few days...If I can be of help to anyone, let me know.. Thanks! Moderator Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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