Re: Too Funny! Andy - Tony

[Guest guest]

Ok, I'm going to reply to this with the exact same thing I sent to

you this morning off-list:

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Tony,

You asked for advice. If you don't like what you hear, you politely

thank the person for their input and take it or leave it. You don't

criticize someone else's opinion when YOU are the one that invited

it. That's called common courtesy.

Jen B.

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And with that said... it seems appropriate at this point, even

though we are still in spring training for baseball, to quote: " Yer

outta here! "

Sincerely,

Jen B.

Fed-up Moderator

> > Good luck! It's tought to find support when you're not willing

to

> > accept it. I think there is plenty of support here, and moving

from

> > place to place is going to find you a different set of people

> > willing to offer support, but it's not going to change your

> mindset,

> > which appears to be your largest obstacle right now.

Unfortunately,

> > you seem to be stuck in the notion that you should continue to

ask

> > the same questions different ways until you get the answer you

> want,

> > instead of accepting the answers you receive. When you've

already

> > made up your mind, it's tough for us to do much else. When

you're

> > ready to change, things will change along with you.

> >

> > Likness

[Guest guest]

Ok, I'm going to reply to this with the exact same thing I sent to

you this morning off-list:

**************************

Tony,

You asked for advice. If you don't like what you hear, you politely

thank the person for their input and take it or leave it. You don't

criticize someone else's opinion when YOU are the one that invited

it. That's called common courtesy.

Jen B.

**************************

And with that said... it seems appropriate at this point, even

though we are still in spring training for baseball, to quote: " Yer

outta here! "

Sincerely,

Jen B.

Fed-up Moderator

> > Good luck! It's tought to find support when you're not willing

to

> > accept it. I think there is plenty of support here, and moving

from

> > place to place is going to find you a different set of people

> > willing to offer support, but it's not going to change your

> mindset,

> > which appears to be your largest obstacle right now.

Unfortunately,

> > you seem to be stuck in the notion that you should continue to

ask

> > the same questions different ways until you get the answer you

> want,

> > instead of accepting the answers you receive. When you've

already

> > made up your mind, it's tough for us to do much else. When

you're

> > ready to change, things will change along with you.

> >

> > Likness

[Guest guest]

Jen,

Thank you for the often thankless job you perform as the moderator.

Sara

>

> And with that said... it seems appropriate at this point, even

> though we are still in spring training for baseball, to quote: " Yer

> outta here! "

>

> Sincerely,

> Jen B.

> Fed-up Moderator

[Guest guest]

Jen,

Thank you for the often thankless job you perform as the moderator.

Sara

>

> And with that said... it seems appropriate at this point, even

> though we are still in spring training for baseball, to quote: " Yer

> outta here! "

>

> Sincerely,

> Jen B.

> Fed-up Moderator

[Guest guest]

Sara,

Thanks for the kudos.... and a big thanks to you too for all your

help. For those of you who don't know, Sara has been my " silent

partner " co-moderator for quite a while now, covering for me when I

can't check the messages for a few days. She has been a lifesaver,

so a big pat on the back to her too!

Jen B.

> Jen,

>

> Thank you for the often thankless job you perform as the moderator.

>

> Sara

>

> >

> > And with that said... it seems appropriate at this point, even

> > though we are still in spring training for baseball, to

quote: " Yer

> > outta here! "

> >

> > Sincerely,

> > Jen B.

> > Fed-up Moderator