Guest guest Posted November 23, 2004 Report Share Posted November 23, 2004 --- RJ wrote: > Hi Pam > > Thanks for writing. I too am prone to second-guessing every decision I make---even minor > ones--and agree with you that when Doctors " play God " and dictate how many years we have left, > it gives me the motivation to live alot longer just to prove them wrong. I've heard from others > who have far exceeded their doctors' predictions and I pray that your husband will outlive the > doctor's forecast by a long margin so that you both will enjoy many, many years of good times > together. > > One thing i have learned is that cancer feeds on fat cells and on sugars. Unfortunately I have > plenty of fat to offer my cancer (though i have lost about 14 pounds since my surgery 5 months > ago) and i crave things like chocolate, cookies, and the like, and of course the holiday season > introduces still more temptation. Sugar free items are not necessarily a good choice since most > sugar substitutes like Equal (Aspertame) and Sweet n Low are also suspected cancer causing > agents. And I used to drink huge amounts of diet sodas daily since they have no calories, but > now I allow myself one maximum per day because of the danger of the artificial sweetners. > > When I get depressed, I get a defeatist attitude of " what's the use " and I talk myself into > " enjoying what time i have left " by indulging in some sugary sweets. That is usually followed > by remorse and I resolve (like an alcoholic who has fallen off the wagon) to do better and the > cycle begins all over again. My MD has told me to try using Chromium (health supplement) as a > way to cut down my sugar cravings. I haven't bought any yet, but i plan to. > > My greatest success so far hasn't been on elimination of sugar so much as the near-complete > elimination of dairy products which I have read are suspect for causing prostate cancer. I was > born and raised in Wisconsin (the Dairy State) and even into adulthood drank a gallon of milk > per week and frequently enjoyed ice cream until I heard about the possible connection between > dairy foods and cancer. The hardest part is to stop eating Pizza because of the need to avoid > cheese. (Dairy products were wholesome foods when my parents were raised, but now that hormones > are injected into cows to make them more productive, it is believed that those hormones are > passed to us through the cow's milk, making all diary products suspect for causing cancer). > > I have also cut back drastically on meat including chicken, and that makes meal time planning a > big challenge, but red meat, chicken and all fried foods are supposed to be bad news in case you > want to pass that along to your hubby. ( I hope he has better luck avoiding fried foods than > me, that is another trouble spot for my diet). > > Please stay in touch and keep me up to date on your husband's well-being, and if he or you has > any advice on how to deal with Zoladex side-effects, I will be interested because I'm pretty > sure i'll be brought to my knees eventually, and will have to follow the same path if i don't > have better results from my current unconventional therapy. > > Bad as cancer is, at least we know what we are up against and we have the will to fight it! > > God bless you both, enjoy your Thanksgiving holiday, and please stay in touch. > > RJ > near Houston, TX > > > QOL > > > Sorry to hear of your prognosis . However, to look on the bright side, I had local > involvement & fast rising PSA. My urologist gave me 18 months; that was over three years ago & > I'm still around & with no mets. I haven't enjoyed living in the " Zoladex wilderness " but I cope > OK & most of life is still good. Best wishes to you. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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