Re: keeping my integrity

[Guest guest]

Thank you for sharing, sweetheart. I love how you open up like this,

if that's in fact what you do I can't really know.

> now how was i supposed to feel>

Just like you did sweetheart, have you noticed?

there i am trying to please her, to get

> her breakfast in bed and she acts like this...

Can you find a turnaround on the one above?

>i did get her breakfast, but

> only after she told me clearly what she wanted.

It sounds like you have a clear communication with her and yourself

in this matter.

>she turned to me and

> said 'are you not getting my breakfast again'. i said 'yes, but you

> haven't told me what you want'. by now i was no longer angry. she

told

> me what she wanted and i was able to give it to her out of love, no

> longer was i angry with her or myself. i was actually proud of

myself>

Very good.

> for keeping my integrity. if i'd gotten it when i was angry, i

would

> have done it not out of love but out of fear of hurting her...

>

Yes sweetheart. Can you also find a turnaround on the one above?