Guest guest Posted November 21, 2006 Report Posted November 21, 2006 dear tami.. my son lives in new york city and its freezing there now.. too bad your mom didnt go in the summer. Alone time is nice ... isnt it. enjoy.. love,roslyn -- In Loving-what-is , " Tami " wrote: > > > > Tami.. you are just mean sometimes.. > > I know... > and I enjoy it so much! > > > i know turn it around > > What happened to STeve Daily did you ever find out?.. I wonder if > > people leave because of my off topic emails.. .. > > AC 's emails are interesting -i have to admit > > sometimes i feel they get too long. but thats ok. > > > > you dont have to read them. > > > > How is your Dad? > > he is alive > my grandfather passed away today! > my mom went to new york > so I have my home all to myself > > T > > love, roslyn > > > > - > > > > > > > > -- In Loving-what-is , Tami <tamar_fa@> wrote: > > > > > > Adithya > > > > > > I am afraid that you are responsible that many people > > > Left this group > > > It is too much to handle to get 10 posts off topic a day from > you. > > > > > > Write a diary and leave this group > > > > > > T > > > > > > -- Documenting thoughts. > > > > > > In my experience, > > > thoughts repeat in order to make memory > > > and in order to keep memory fresh and intact. > > > Thoughts that don't repeat; soon, disappear > > > from our memory. > > > > > > And, thoughts repeat only as long as we have > > > a " need " to keep them 'in memory' - possibly, > > > to resolve them later! Example of these 'repeating' > > > [and by 'unresolved'] thoughts would include - > > > 'having to' file taxes, 'having to' finish paperwork, > > > 'having to' meet boss... > > > > > > and, they might also include thoughts of > > > 'what someone did to me', because, I don't > > > think I have yet DONE " enough " to pay him/her > > > back [take my revenge]! That's why, when > > > a murderer gets sentenced to death and execute - > > > victim's families often say it brings 'closure' > > > to the memory of the dead i.e. that particular > > > thought of 'what someone did' is 'resolved' > > > [and thus " released " ] now! > > > > > > Repeating thoughts might also include, 'what I did' to > > > myself or someone else and the reason of their > > > repeat might be because we think we haven't yet > > > " punished " ourselves for having done that, haven't > > > 'paid back' enough to the victims for having caused > > > some damage or because we think we haven't yet > > > fully learned its lessons. > > > > > > Either way, thoughts repeat only because they > > > are not yet completely " resolved " . > > > > > > Thought " I have to file my taxes " or " I have to > > > pay my electricity bill " keeps repeating itself > > > until we taken a real decision by either paying it, > > > or by deciding not to pay it or by setting a fixed > > > time and place to pay it. Once we do that, this thought > > > is " resolved " and thus stops repeating itself. It is > > > my experience that a Very Similar thing happens with > > > other thoughts too! > > > > > > > > > * * * * * > > > > > > Therefore, I think it is good to sit with pen and > > > paper [or computer] and give our full > > > attention to listen, understand, > > > examine and document any thought that > > > keeps repeating itself frequently. > > > > > > It not only works with tax and paperwork > > > kind of thoughts but, in my experience, it > > > works in " resolving " ANY thought that keeps > > > repeating itself! > > > > > > A repeating thought saps our energy and time > > > it keeps occupying Valuable Mental SPACE > > > [Peace Of Mind, Open Awareness]. Resolving > > > such a thought OPENS this SPACE Up once > > > Again! > > > > > > > > > A thought repeats itself only as long as we > > > believe that you need to 'remember' it, > > > we need to 'keep it in memory' because > > > we find its 'lessons' useful for some > > > reason or there is something that 'we > > > want to do' that we still haven't done. > > > It is simply a remainder that keeps > > > reminding us to do 'what we want to do' > > > with it and then allow it to go away. > > > > > > Repeating thought is simply our way to > > > keep it in memory and to keep it fresh. > > > Once we fully examine it, take time to > > > understand it and document it - we end > > > the need of repeating it because we > > > have documented it and thus we can refer > > > to it anytime we want plus by examining > > > it in full details and by taking a > > > 'decision' we resolve and release it! > > > > > > Unless we have 'resolved' a thought, > > > it is my experience that a thought DOES > > > and " should " [for our own sake] keep repeating > > > itself! > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Sponsored Link > > > > > > Mortgage rates near 39yr lows. $420,000 Mortgage for $1,399/mo - > > Calculate > > > new house payment > > > > > > Quote
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