Re: Who want's to help me...

[Guest guest]

>

> I never really posted anything I was just always reading.

>

> Now something really bad happend to me, and hope maybe you guys

can help me how to look at it and make me feel better..

>

> A friend of mine who I know from Germany (I am from Germany)

about 3 yr, he moved back to the staates. We where always friends...

He invited me to come to visit him. So I booked a flight. A month

later he told me he has bad news, he is getting deployed and

propertly not there anymore when I come. Then it changed again and he

said he will leave later and so on..

> He ask me if I would like to go on a Cruise with him, of course I

wanted.. so I sended him the money and he booked the cruise.

> One week after that, he told me plans changed he has to go now

sooner and we have to cancel the cruise .. I will get the money

back... I am sure I will never see the money again.

> So fact is I went there saw him 2 times, he told me crazy storys

I didn't belive him everything.

> I rented a car and took hotels and visit also a girl friend of

mine. But I got now into money problems.. it was very expensive.

> And now I found out that he still is in the USA. And wonder why,

did he do the things he did?I feel very hurt and used, like a fool.

And on top of it I am pretty sure I am now pregnant from him. :-(

>

> So who would like to help me to do the work on that crazy story?

>

> Thank you

>

>

I don't see any " stress " in your story

above.

It seems like a 'statement of facts' coming

from a balanced and peaceful mind [ and

with a a " :-( " mark to boot].

Based on your 'story', it only looks

like a 'situation' and not really a

" problem " . I don't see statement of

a 'mental problem' in your story that

you might need to " work " on. Based

on your story, you seem to rather take

it quite lightly and in somewaht jovial

mood [remember the " :-( " sign.].

Are you sure you have a [mental]

" problem " here? It just seems like

a statement of facts to me.

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BTW... if I was you [and, if I really feel

that he cheated] I would inform him

that I was going to ask him for 'child

support' and in order to collect the money he cheated,

I was going to file a case against him in a

small claim court [it is fairly easy to do so].

[Guest guest]

Dear blond

I am sure you know by now

That all " good " man are gay!!!!!

Seriously now

I hear that your friend doesn't love to keep his word, that is his job.

He is perfect the way he is!!!!!

If you think he should act deferntly, that is where the pain comes in

If you don't love the taste of a banana, don't eat a banana

It is hopeless to try to make a banana taste like an apple, if you know what

I mean?

But that is what you are doing with him

You want him (banana) to be honest (taste like an apple)

He didn't do what he did to hurt you

He was just being himself

It is your responsibility not to hurt yourself

And find yourself an Apple for a change, cause only an apple will taste like

an apple

I have an apple in Berlin, and his taste is prefect for me

I don't want him to taste deferently

He is taken, find yourself someone else, please

Love, T

-- Who want's to help me...

I never really posted anything I was just always reading.

Now something really bad happend to me, and hope maybe you guys can help me

how to look at it and make me feel better..

A friend of mine who I know from Germany (I am from Germany) about 3 yr, he

moved back to the staates. We where always friends... He invited me to come

to visit him. So I booked a flight. A month later he told me he has bad news

he is getting deployed and propertly not there anymore when I come. Then it

changed again and he said he will leave later and so on..

He ask me if I would like to go on a Cruise with him, of course I wanted..

so I sended him the money and he booked the cruise.

One week after that, he told me plans changed he has to go now sooner and we

have to cancel the cruise .. I will get the money back... I am sure I will

never see the money again.

So fact is I went there saw him 2 times, he told me crazy storys I didn't

belive him everything.

I rented a car and took hotels and visit also a girl friend of mine. But I

got now into money problems.. it was very expensive.

And now I found out that he still is in the USA. And wonder why, did he do

the things he did?I feel very hurt and used, like a fool. And on top of it I

am pretty sure I am now pregnant from him. :-(

So who would like to help me to do the work on that crazy story?

Thank you

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[Guest guest]

Dear ,

Am 07.07.2006 um 04:56 schrieb Radschinsky:

> I never really posted anything I was just always reading.

Thank you for your first post, then!

> Now something really bad happend to me, and hope maybe you guys can

> help me how to look at it and make me feel better..

As I understand from your reply to Adithya the really bad part is the

one where you feel stupid?

Have you ever felt stupid, before?

And what is it, exactly, you feel stupid about?

What about the pregnancy? Can you find any motive, there?

I am asking, because as far as I know, unless you are raped, both

parts can take precautonary measures, if they don't want a pregnancy.

So, did he know he could make you pregnant?

> A friend of mine who I know from Germany (I am from Germany)

> about 3 yr, he moved back to the staates. We where always

> friends... He invited me to come to visit him. So I booked a

> flight. A month later he told me he has bad news, he is getting

> deployed and propertly not there anymore when I come. Then it

> changed again and he said he will leave later and so on..

> He ask me if I would like to go on a Cruise with him, of course I

> wanted.. so I sended him the money and he booked the cruise.

> One week after that, he told me plans changed he has to go now

> sooner and we have to cancel the cruise .. I will get the money

> back... I am sure I will never see the money again.

You could be right. Who's money is it, since the moment you gave it

to him?

> So fact is I went there saw him 2 times, he told me crazy storys

> I didn't belive him everything.

I hear you didn't believe him.

> I rented a car and took hotels and visit also a girl friend of

> mine. But I got now into money problems.. it was very expensive.

I hear it was very expensive. And you didn't know how much it would

cost?

How do your money problems look?

> And now I found out that he still is in the USA. And wonder why,

> did he do the things he did?

You could ask him. Who's buisness is it, what he did?

Why do you want to know?

> I feel very hurt and used, like a fool.

Good. Who used you? And how?

> And on top of it I am pretty sure I am now pregnant from him. :-(

And I hear that is not what you want.

> So who would like to help me to do the work on that crazy story?

Start with: " I'm angry about my friend, because... " . And if it is not

" angry " , then it may be " sad " , " disappointed " or " upset with " . What

is it?

This is to get clear what part you are at war with.

> Thank you

>

>

Love,

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