HELP NEEDED TO SORT THROUGH THOUGTHS!

[Guest guest]

Two issues I need help working through.

My new man is sweet and loving but he has kids and he is not very

romantic. Maybe he is romantic but he is taking his time before he

opens up like that to me? I don't know I am not a psyghologist. But I

know I like a lot of affection which should not always be initiated by

me…maybe its me maybe I am too needy and its not him? Maybe it's the

age difference…he is 10years older maybe he has done all the touchy

feely stuff? Maybe I am just reading too much into it and we've only

been together 2 months? Maybe i want to be in control and he should do

what i want???? Or maybe he just isn't the one for me? How do I know

what is what with all these emotions I am feeling for him. He says he

will try to be more affectionate. I get a little irritated when he says

he is going over his childrens house and he ate over there…why do I get

mad? I trust him….maybe cause I know she had him first and it makes me

feel insecure knowing he won't feel for me like he does for her…???? I

don't want to break up with him not even knowing why?????? HELP NEEDED

TO SORT THROUGH THOUGTHS!