Guest guest Posted May 22, 2006 Report Share Posted May 22, 2006 I hear that your honesty has put you in trouble. Your friend doesn't talk to you (in this moment - has this ever happened before?) Zigi doesn't want you to mention a subject. Amber doesn't talk to you - now. kicked you out. Where is the trouble? Tami schrieb: I have realized that my over honesty put me into trouble I said to my friend that I don't like her child She doesn't want to talk to me I asked zigi when his wife intend to die, cause than we could be together He asked me not to mention this subject I told amber that I am mad at her cause I was hurt Now she doesn't talk to me I was witting here, freely, until kicked me out Is the problem in me? Or With other people's sensitivity? I like myself I like my honesty I like my humor Am I dumed to be alone? I don't want to change to make people love me And I know that some people do love me already the way I am T --------------------------------- Telefonieren Sie ohne weitere Kosten mit Ihren Freunden von PC zu PC! Jetzt Yahoo! Messenger installieren! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2006 Report Share Posted May 22, 2006 Have you become enlightent, When did that happen to you? People don't talk to me, the man I loved kicked me out of the group And you don't see a problem? And on top of that you write me privatly: " I love you " You have some issues with what love is, babe Love don't kicks you out, my opinion When you learn what love is, call me back T -- RE: Tell the true or lie? I hear that your honesty has put you in trouble. Your friend doesn't talk to you (in this moment - has this ever happened before?) Zigi doesn't want you to mention a subject. Amber doesn't talk to you - now. kicked you out. Where is the trouble? Tami schrieb: I have realized that my over honesty put me into trouble I said to my friend that I don't like her child She doesn't want to talk to me I asked zigi when his wife intend to die, cause than we could be together He asked me not to mention this subject I told amber that I am mad at her cause I was hurt Now she doesn't talk to me I was witting here, freely, until kicked me out Is the problem in me? Or With other people's sensitivity? I like myself I like my honesty I like my humor Am I dumed to be alone? I don't want to change to make people love me And I know that some people do love me already the way I am T --------------------------------- Telefonieren Sie ohne weitere Kosten mit Ihren Freunden von PC zu PC! Jetzt Yahoo! Messenger installieren! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2006 Report Share Posted May 22, 2006 You don´t have to change Tami. You can be as honest as you want. Just don´t expect other people to appreciate it or love you for it. Because the might not. If someone had told me she didn´t like my kid, I think I would withdrawn from that person too. Not everyone is that " spiritual " that we love what is, even " the truth " about our child, or that we see critisism as a way to grow. And of course that is none of your problem. If you truly love yourself and your honesty, I don´t see a problem. Why do you need other people to love you and your honesty aswell? Love, > > I have realized that my over honesty put me into trouble > > I said to my friend that I don't like her child > She doesn't want to talk to me > > I asked zigi when his wife intend to die, cause than we could be together > He asked me not to mention this subject > > I told amber that I am mad at her cause I was hurt > Now she doesn't talk to me > > I was witting here, freely, until kicked me out > > Is the problem in me? > Or > With other people's sensitivity? > > I like myself > I like my honesty > I like my humor > > Am I dumed to be alone? > > I don't want to change to make people love me > And I know that some people do love me already the way I am > > T > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 22, 2006 Report Share Posted May 22, 2006 Thank you so much You helped me so much. You are so right! If I don't ecpect people to appropriate my honesty, there is no problem at all!!!! My friend as a discasting child who complains all day long When he wakes up he always cries When he doesn't get what he want, he cries I just think that this child is another reason for me not to want to have kids So I told her what I think... Ooops I have lost a friend... Anyway for me it is like Sitting with a friend watching t.v, they I see this guy there, Ariel Sharon, and I can say, oh boy, he is so fat And other mean stuff, and my friend wouldn't have a problem with my honesty than Only when I share my opinion about her or about her son. I was honest with too, lately I told him that sometimes I hate him, cause that is what I feel, he doesn't talk to me either... Maybe I should be with people that I have nothing bad to say about them Like ... , I love you I love your posts You are so wise And next time kicks me, stand up for me Thank you, T -- Re: Tell the true or lie? You don´t have to change Tami. You can be as honest as you want. Just don´t expect other people to appreciate it or love you for it. Because the might not. If someone had told me she didn´t like my kid, I think I would withdrawn from that person too. Not everyone is that " spiritual " that we love what is, even " the truth " about our child, or that we see critisism as a way to grow. And of course that is none of your problem. If you truly love yourself and your honesty, I don´t see a problem. Why do you need other people to love you and your honesty aswell? Love, > > I have realized that my over honesty put me into trouble > > I said to my friend that I don't like her child > She doesn't want to talk to me > > I asked zigi when his wife intend to die, cause than we could be together > He asked me not to mention this subject > > I told amber that I am mad at her cause I was hurt > Now she doesn't talk to me > > I was witting here, freely, until kicked me out > > Is the problem in me? > Or > With other people's sensitivity? > > I like myself > I like my honesty > I like my humor > > Am I dumed to be alone? > > I don't want to change to make people love me > And I know that some people do love me already the way I am > > T > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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