Re: Tami please leave this group!

May 7, 2006

love the work.. what are you so upset about?

no one is forcing you to read any emails.

I think it odd that in your poll what is- T was your last

choice and since this is a loving what is. ... group

the obvious choice would be the last one What is T...

I enjoy tami.

And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

so often in others business,

so no wonder, r

- In Loving-what-is , " lovetheworkofbk "

wrote:

>

> >

> > ***i find that i never really know what is going to happen ~

> > regardless of the 'orders' that i place....i am open to see what

> > happens! and i can love the reality even when it doesnt match

> > my 'order' ... if i am open and not deluded enough to think that

> > things are going to turn out as i expect. and nothing prevents me

> > from repeating my request for prime rib and seeing if i get it

> > next time/this time/ that is how i find that i can love whatever

> > happens, by not having the same expectations as i used to. i've

> > found that since doing the work my i seem to hold my 'preferences'

> > much more lightly....

> >

>

> Yes, I am not deluded enough to think that Tami would

> leave voluntarily, but I thought it might be worth a try at asking

> her to move along.

>

> LOL ... so since my appeals to Tami and the moderators of this group

> have fallen on deaf ears, I will just have to go above their dear

> heads and approach the administrators of the Yahoo Groups directly

> and plead my case. If that doesn't work then perhaps I will approach

> some of the senior management in Microsoft itself. Stay tuned,

> hopefully the end of Tami's boiled vegetables will not be too far

> away.

>

> Have a beautiful day

>

> " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

> ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

>

May 7, 2006

>

> I enjoy tami.

>

> And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

>

> so often in others business,

>

> so no wonder, r

>

Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an absolute

scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes forum,

but here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and Tami

started to talk about her latest love interest i.e. , Ziggi,

Steve etc. do you think that would give her center stage and

indulge her attention seeking? I don't think so. If would not

put up with such behaviour in her intensives/schools, then why do we

have to put up with it in this group? The answer is that we don't

have to put up with her antics any longer, and if she doesn't wish

to leave voluntarily then I guess it's up to me to make it happen

one way or another.

Have a beautiful day

" Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

May 7, 2006

> >

> > I enjoy tami.

> >

> > And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

> >

> > so often in others business,

> >

> > so no wonder, r

> >

>

> Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an

absolute

> scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes

forum,

> but here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

> interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and Tami

> started to talk about her latest love interest i.e. , Ziggi,

> Steve etc. do you think that would give her center stage and

> indulge her attention seeking? I don't think so. If would

not

> put up with such behaviour in her intensives/schools, then why do

we

> have to put up with it in this group? The answer is that we don't

> have to put up with her antics any longer, and if she doesn't wish

> to leave voluntarily then I guess it's up to me to make it happen

> one way or another.

>

> Have a beautiful day

>

> " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

> ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

>

May 8, 2006

>

> Well, Tami did the School of work and wasn´t thrown out. So what

> does that tell you?

>

As I recall Tami " hated " the School, probably because she had to

behave herself or she would have been asked to leave.

Every event I have heard has been quite strictly controlled. Do

you know why the format of these events is so strictly controlled?

Perhaps it is keep people on track with their inquiry and not engaged

with more story telling.

This group has appealed to Tami numerous times to clean up her act,

and she ignores us. If she can't play nice here, then she needs to

find somewhere else to play.

Have a beautiful day

" There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

Byron

May 8, 2006

> >

> > Well, Tami did the School of work and wasn´t thrown out. So what

> > does that tell you?

> >

>

> As I recall Tami " hated " the School, probably because she had to

> behave herself or she would have been asked to leave.

>

> Every event I have heard has been quite strictly controlled.

Do

> you know why the format of these events is so strictly controlled?

> Perhaps it is keep people on track with their inquiry and not

engaged

> with more story telling.

*** Well then I politely ask you to not tell more stories, but to

question them please, and be a rollmodel for us all.

Love,

>

> This group has appealed to Tami numerous times to clean up her

act,

> and she ignores us. If she can't play nice here, then she needs to

> find somewhere else to play.

>

> Have a beautiful day

>

> " There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

> Byron

>

May 8, 2006

Hi love (.)(.)

>Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an absolute

>Scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes forum,

>But here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

>Interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and Tami

>Started to talk about her latest love interest I.e. , Ziggi,

>Steve etc.

(.)(.) Zigi you don't spell with a double G(rrr)!

Sometimes, I prefer focussing on what is not important rather than on the

IMPORTANT.

Just like you!

Have a beautiful day

P.S... How do you like my new implants? (.)(.)

T

Your favorite boiled vegetable

May 8, 2006

Love

Read what I am about to write, and take it in!

A stupid man (YOU) report of what a clever women (ME) says IS NEVER ACCURATE

(Grr)

Because he unconsciously translates what he hears into something he can

understand.

Stay tuned, T (your smart reflection)

-- Re: Tami please leave this group!

>

> Well, Tami did the School of work and wasn´t thrown out. So what

> does that tell you?

>

As I recall Tami " hated " the School, probably because she had to

behave herself or she would have been asked to leave.

Every event I have heard has been quite strictly controlled. Do

you know why the format of these events is so strictly controlled?

Perhaps it is keep people on track with their inquiry and not engaged

with more story telling.

This group has appealed to Tami numerous times to clean up her act,

and she ignores us. If she can't play nice here, then she needs to

find somewhere else to play.

Have a beautiful day

" There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

Byron

May 8, 2006

> > >

> > > I enjoy tami.

> > >

> > > And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

> > >

> > > so often in others business,

> > >

> > > so no wonder, r

> > >

> >

> > Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an

> absolute

> > scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes

> forum,

> > but here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

> > interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and Tami

> > started to talk about her latest love interest i.e. , Ziggi,

> > Steve etc. do you think that would give her center stage

and

> > indulge her attention seeking? I don't think so. If would

> not

> > put up with such behaviour in her intensives/schools, then why

do

> we

> > have to put up with it in this group? The answer is that we

don't

> > have to put up with her antics any longer, and if she doesn't

wish

> > to leave voluntarily then I guess it's up to me to make it

happen

> > one way or another.

> >

> > Have a beautiful day

> >

> > " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

> > ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

> >

>

May 8, 2006

You are just jealous, R!!!

(and funny too)

Tip of the day:

If you eat right

And you exercise

And... You get breast implants,

You can look like ME.

Love, T

>

>P.S... How do you like my new implants? (.)(.)

>

They look like boiled vegetables ;-)

R.

May 8, 2006

Hey (.)(.)

Why ruin a good story with the truth?

T

> > >

> > > I enjoy tami.

> > >

> > > And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

> > >

> > > so often in others business,

> > >

> > > so no wonder, r

> > >

> >

> > Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an

> absolute

> > scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes

> forum,

> > but here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

> > interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and Tami

> > started to talk about her latest love interest i.e. , Ziggi,

> > Steve etc. do you think that would give her center stage

and

> > indulge her attention seeking? I don't think so. If would

> not

> > put up with such behaviour in her intensives/schools, then why

do

> we

> > have to put up with it in this group? The answer is that we

don't

> > have to put up with her antics any longer, and if she doesn't

wish

> > to leave voluntarily then I guess it's up to me to make it

happen

> > one way or another.

> >

> > Have a beautiful day

> >

> > " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

> > ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

> >

>

May 8, 2006

that would be true at a katie event but there people are paying a lot

of money to just hear katie and the work..

This group is free..

Also I havent done it in a long time but people who want to could read

the archives if they want to look for work examples.

And emails from Mona and from CArol skolnick or maria

People who are more into the work.

I agree with maria that no one has a right to complain. as

we have not set the example and posted work .

you first. , r

- In Loving-what-is , " lovetheworkofbk "

wrote:

>

> >

> > I enjoy tami.

> >

> > And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

> >

> > so often in others business,

> >

> > so no wonder, r

> >

>

> Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an absolute

> scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes forum,

> but here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

> interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and Tami

> started to talk about her latest love interest i.e. , Ziggi,

> Steve etc. do you think that would give her center stage and

> indulge her attention seeking? I don't think so. If would not

> put up with such behaviour in her intensives/schools, then why do we

> have to put up with it in this group? The answer is that we don't

> have to put up with her antics any longer, and if she doesn't wish

> to leave voluntarily then I guess it's up to me to make it happen

> one way or another.

>

> Have a beautiful day

>

> " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer,

> ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

>

May 8, 2006

>

> *** Well then I politely ask you to not tell more stories, but to

> question them please, and be a rollmodel for us all.

>

I am a role model for applying the Work in social action. It

appears that you have made the " mistake " most beginners to the Work

make and try to use the Work to wrap yourself up in a cosy bubble of

Inquiry and think that there is no need to take social or political

action in the world. Nothing could be further from the truth than

that. Consider carefully the following paragraphs from :

" But some people take the insight that the world is perfect and make it

into a concept, and then they conclude that there's no need to get

involved in politics or social or environmental action. That's

separation. If someone came to you and said, " I'm suffering. Please

help me, " would you answer, " You're perfect just the way you are " and

turn away? Our heart naturally responds to people and animals in need. "

" I stand in my own truth and don't presume to know what's best for the

planet. Knowing that the world is perfect doesn't mean that you

withdraw or stop doing what you know is right for you to do. If, for

example, you're concerned about the environment, please give us all

the facts. Do a whole study of it, go to graduate school if you have

to, help us out. And if you talk to us clearly, without an agenda or

any investment in the results, we can hear you, because you're on our

level. You're not talking to us from a superior, I-know position. If

you know that we're all equal, that we're all doing the best we can,

you can be the most powerful activist on the planet. "

Even the great masters like Jesus were not adverse to social action

when appropriate. For example overturning the tables of the money

lenders in the temple and stopping the stoning of the woman for

adultery, to name just a few.

I have inquired and have no negative thoughts about Tami. From that

clear place it is obvious to me that Tami's behaviour still needs

boundaries and so I need to take the appropriate social action. Yes,

Tami's involvement on this list is perfect but I am NOT going to make

that into a concept and assume that nothing about Tami's involvement

needs to change.

Have a beautiful day

" Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer, ever,

ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

May 8, 2006

>

> Love

> I am so glad that I am in this group, you know why?

> Cause I am the only reason you write here

> And I truly love your posts

> So here is one good thing about me, I inspire you

>

Tami I think that you and others like you are here so that we can

learn that doing the Work does not exclude social or political

action. In fact social and political action is most effective when

grounded in the Work.

As we learn to set boundaries for you we get to see love in action.

The boundaries are only there to avoid causing hurt to those who

still believe they can be hurt and that would be 99% of us in this

dream.

Have a beautiful day

" There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

Byron

May 8, 2006

> > > >

> > > > I enjoy tami.

> > > >

> > > > And your getting in our business. I notice because i am

> > > >

> > > > so often in others business,

> > > >

> > > > so no wonder, r

> > > >

> > >

> > > Ros I enjoy Tami to, but not in this group. She would be an

> > absolute

> > > scream in an on-line dating forum or sex starved Jewish babes

> > forum,

> > > but here her boiled vegetables are not what most people are

> > > interested in. Imagine if you were at a intensive and

Tami

> > > started to talk about her latest love interest i.e. ,

Ziggi,

> > > Steve etc. do you think that would give her center stage

> and

> > > indulge her attention seeking? I don't think so. If

would

> > not

> > > put up with such behaviour in her intensives/schools, then why

> do

> > we

> > > have to put up with it in this group? The answer is that we

> don't

> > > have to put up with her antics any longer, and if she doesn't

> wish

> > > to leave voluntarily then I guess it's up to me to make it

> happen

> > > one way or another.

> > >

> > > Have a beautiful day

> > >

> > > " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't

suffer,

> > > ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron

> > >

> >

>

May 8, 2006

Love

I am so glad that I am in this group, you know why?

Cause I am the only reason you write here

And I truly love your posts

So here is one good thing about me, I inspire you