Re: moderators (elialeros)

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WOW, ALex

I just read what you wrote, and I feel so that you and me think alike

and I enjoy reading your posts cause sometimes you are better with

words than me.

You are such a loving person to me

I have so much to learn from you

and trust me, I am already a guru in love

T

> Sweetie, whether sends money to someone or not, does NOT

affect

> MY world.

>

> Nor does it affect my world, if you have sex with animals. I

could

> not care less!

>

> I care what I do. That's clarity. Most often I forget that. I do

what

> I do for ME! Always.

>

> Tami seems to have a HUGE impact on YOUR world. And maybe not.

Again,

> I don't really care.

>

> YOU DO have an impact on MY world. I do care.

>

> When I do take you serious, I get annoyed. And you look to me like

a

> blind guy that's running around telling everyone what they should

see.

>

> I hear you talk about abuse, nazism, killing, and lots of

violence

> happening in this list.

>

> This list is like an interactive book. For all I know ALL of the

> charakters in here could be fictional, me included.

>

> It can be a pretty strong illusion, though.

>

> What is interesting for me, is how this list affects MY world.

>

> And maybe you just struck a nerve of mine that needed to be struck.

>

> It feels like you wanted people in this group to be loving to

each

> other. And protect those who aren't from hurting themselves.

Knowing

> all along that it doesn't work, but without knowing what else to

do.

> I can see myself in that, with my kids. And I have two wonderful

> kids. The older one wakes me up at half past 7 on the weekend, to

> tell me that the sun rose (even when the sky is so full of clouds

> that you can't see it) and that the breakfast is ready. And that

at

> the age of six!

>

> And his brother has the most charming smile I have seen, since...

I

> looked at old pictures of myself, actually.

>

> And sometimes they do things like hurting each other, not

listening

> at all, usual kid's stuff, that get me sooo upset, soo fast! All

> because I think they should be more ... like I want them to be,

and

> less as they are.

>

> That is not love. Let alone unconditional love.

>

> Of course I could tell Tami to please stop that, or ask her if

she

> can't see how she is hurting other people feelings. And come from

a

> position of love, while doing that. And ban her out of the group

if

> she did not follow what I asked her. And still come from a

position

> of love.

>

> I just can't see how she is hurting anyone, here. She is just

acting

> who she is, as you are. I can't even see how her behaviour is

> disturbing.

>

> However, if I did that, you may see that as loving, and some

others

> may as well. And some won't. But it would not feel loving for me

to

> shut ANYONE out of this group, who may find something helpful in

here.

>

> I strongly encourage everyone who finds disturbing mails in here,

to:

> 1. make sure in his membership setting that he is being sent

> individual emails

> 2. make up some rules for the messages he may find disturbing.

>

> I welcome every mail that helps me to find a disturbing thought

that

> could lead me to do the work.

>

> Love,

>

>

>

> Am 02.02.2006 um 03:08 schrieb lovetheworkofbk:

>

> >

> >

> >> Good. And who do you take as a measure of how much is " too "

much? 1

> >> per day? 5? 10? Try to give a number.

> >>

> >> Because then you can go: " Tami should send less than.... 5

> >> uninteresting posts a day " .

> >> Wich means that your world is a better one, if only Tami sent

less

> >> than 5 posts a day.

> >> And this shows how you depend your happiness on Tami, instead of

> >> taking care of it, yourself.

> >> And we both know where that leads to, don't we?

> >>

> >

> > when sent money to the hurricane victims do you

think

> > that made her world better? When she had a face lift do you

think that

> > made her world better? Do you know why she did those things? The

same

> > reason that Brigitte is asking for less posts from Tami, because

that

> > is what love does, it acts. Love is well aware that someones

thinking

> > is the cause of their suffering, but because others are not

there yet

> > it meets them where they are in the form of a donation or a

request

> > for less posts from Tami.

> >

> > Have a beautiful day

> >

> >

> > " There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

> > Byron

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