Guest guest Posted March 2, 2006 Report Posted March 2, 2006 i discovered through the inquiry that i'm angry with andrea not because she is always telling me what to do, but because i never tell ME what to do... i never stand by my opinion, am always changing sides... so i never stand up for my beliefs... i feel as if i don't even have opinions... i am too accomodating see, a real peple pleaser, and i can't seem to change this no matter how many books i read or how many therapy sessions i go through... i came across the work searching for books on people pleasing... now how can the work help me with this problem? i don't have katie's latest book on seeking approval yet... i think this is the core of all my major problems, with andrea and with everyone else... i am too eager to please, not to hurt, not to tell the truth (even at my own expense), to let the other person be happy even when i'm not... i'd really like for someone to help me faciliate on these issues... Quote
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