Re: lovethework, my dentist told me to call you

[Guest guest]

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> I am willing to do anything, and I mean anything

> to bring lovethework back to the group.

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> Love,

> I will even lick your balls even if they are big and hairy

> because I have dental floss.

>

> T

>

More Tami braised liver. What puzzles me is why you continue to serve

up this kind of thing to the group?

Is it because your not getting enough LAA (love, attention and

appreciation) by playing nice, so you need to try something more

shocking? In my experience seeking LAA from anyone but myself is

doomed to failure. Your looking for love in all the wrong places.

Ziggi/Steve/ can't give you the LAA you so desperately crave, but

still we see endless posts seeking their love and approval. So many

people find you cute and funny, all I see is someone searching for LAA

everywhere except where it can really be found, which I suspect makes

you rather sad not cute or funny.

Have a beautiful day

" There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

Byron

[Guest guest]

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> Hi Love,

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> Are you really beyond seeking LAA? I'm not there yet. I get to

> question that I should no longer seek LAA when the reality is that I

> do. I get sad when I believe that I shouldn't and I do. Without

> that thought I happily seek LAA and get it or not. And when I don't

> and I think I need it I get to come back to TW.

>

Hi Ric,

I agree that having the thought " I shouldn't seek LAA " is hopeless

when I am engaged in seeking LAA. When seeking LAA what I have found

helpful is to LOOK, LOOK, LOOK (as my golf teacher reminds me). When I

LOOK closely at my attempts to gain LAA I notice that they always

result in failure. Having a deep realization of the inherent futility

of seeking LAA, means that I rarely if ever engage in it anymore.

Honestly who would seek LAA if they really saw that it never worked.

What maintains the search for LAA is my reluctance to LOOK, LOOK, LOOK

at it.

In golf you are told to LOOK, LOOK, LOOK to maintain a flat left wrist

and bent right wrist. In life it pays to LOOK, LOOK, LOOK at my

searching for LAA until I see that I AM what I have been seeking.

" There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

Byron

[Guest guest]

> >

> > I am willing to do anything, and I mean anything

> > to bring lovethework back to the group.

> >

> > Love,

> > I will even lick your balls even if they are big and hairy

> > because I have dental floss.

> >

> > T

> >

>

> More Tami braised liver. What puzzles me is why you continue to

serve

> up this kind of thing to the group?

>

> Is it because your not getting enough LAA (love, attention and

> appreciation) by playing nice, so you need to try something more

> shocking? In my experience seeking LAA from anyone but myself is

> doomed to failure. Your looking for love in all the wrong places.

> Ziggi/Steve/ can't give you the LAA you so desperately crave,

but

> still we see endless posts seeking their love and approval. So

many

> people find you cute and funny, all I see is someone searching for

LAA

> everywhere except where it can really be found, which I suspect

makes

> you rather sad not cute or funny.

>

> Have a beautiful day

>

>

> " There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

> Byron

>

[Guest guest]

>

> When I have a story that someone is seeking LAA, is desperate, and

> that it´s painful for them, that they do the wrong things and that

> they have something to learn, I feel sadness too. And I´m not only

> talking about people in this group, like Tami, I´m thinking of my

> family and friends. I used to have that story about my mother and

> brother for example, and I felt sad for them, and annoyed. But

> when my story let go of me I could no longer feel sadness for

> them. When I think about them today I feel joy and love, and yes,

> I see them as both cute and very funny. I laugh a lot together

> with my whole family, which I used to see as so tragic before. I

> don´t bother my brain anymore whether they are seeking LAA or not,

> and I know it´s not a choise I have made. Staying in my business

> was just a consequence of questioning my thoughts.

>

LOL ... what a wonderful example of how the ego can use the Work not

to LOOK. went within herself and saw that the cause of all her

suffering was her thoughts. Now if she had stayed in her business

literally, then she would not have written a book or created a

school for the Work. However, she did write a book and create a

school, because she thought that maybe what she had discovered would

be useful to others.

Now the same process can be applied to seeking LAA. I go within and

see that seeking LAA from anywhere but within myself is totally

futile. Now that information could be very useful to someone like

Tami so I write an email. Am I in her business? Not really because I

don't have a stressful thought that Tami should not seek LAA. That

piece of information that seeking LAA is futile could be very

helpful to Tami, but it is never going to reach her if I stay

strictly in my own business. It is entirely possible to share an

insight on LAA from a place of peace and love and have no story at

all! Something you might like to practice with your family and

friends, or not.

Have an awesome day

" There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

Byron

[Guest guest]

> >

> > When I have a story that someone is seeking LAA, is desperate,

and

> > that it´s painful for them, that they do the wrong things and

that

> > they have something to learn, I feel sadness too. And I´m not

only

> > talking about people in this group, like Tami, I´m thinking of

my

> > family and friends. I used to have that story about my mother

and

> > brother for example, and I felt sad for them, and annoyed. But

> > when my story let go of me I could no longer feel sadness for

> > them. When I think about them today I feel joy and love, and

yes,

> > I see them as both cute and very funny. I laugh a lot together

> > with my whole family, which I used to see as so tragic before. I

> > don´t bother my brain anymore whether they are seeking LAA or

not,

> > and I know it´s not a choise I have made. Staying in my business

> > was just a consequence of questioning my thoughts.

> >

>

> LOL ... what a wonderful example of how the ego can use the Work

not

> to LOOK. went within herself and saw that the cause of all

her

> suffering was her thoughts. Now if she had stayed in her business

> literally, then she would not have written a book or created a

> school for the Work. However, she did write a book and create a

> school, because she thought that maybe what she had discovered

would

> be useful to others.

>

> Now the same process can be applied to seeking LAA. I go within

and

> see that seeking LAA from anywhere but within myself is totally

> futile. Now that information could be very useful to someone like

> Tami so I write an email. Am I in her business? Not really because

I

> don't have a stressful thought that Tami should not seek LAA. That

> piece of information that seeking LAA is futile could be very

> helpful to Tami, but it is never going to reach her if I stay

> strictly in my own business. It is entirely possible to share an

> insight on LAA from a place of peace and love and have no story at

> all! Something you might like to practice with your family and

> friends, or not.

>

> Have an awesome day

>

>

> " There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned concepts. "

> Byron

>

[Guest guest]

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> > > >

> >

> > > > I am willing to do anything, and I mean anything

> >

> > > > to bring lovethework back to the group.

> >

> > > >

> >

> > > > Love,

> >

> > > > I will even lick your balls even if they are big and hairy

> >

> > > > because I have dental floss.

> >

> > > >

> >

> > > > T

> >

> > > >

> >

> > >

> >

> > > More Tami braised liver. What puzzles me is why you continue to

> >

> >serve

> >

> > > up this kind of thing to the group?

> >

> > >

> >

> > > Is it because your not getting enough LAA (love, attention and

> >

> > > appreciation) by playing nice, so you need to try something

more

> >

> > > shocking? In my experience seeking LAA from anyone but myself

is

> >

> > > doomed to failure. Your looking for love in all the wrong

places.

> >

> > > Ziggi/Steve/ can't give you the LAA you so desperately

crave,

> >

> >but

> >

> > > still we see endless posts seeking their love and approval. So

> >

> >many

> >

> > > people find you cute and funny, all I see is someone searching

for

> >

> >LAA

> >

> > > everywhere except where it can really be found, which I suspect

> >

> >makes

> >

> > > you rather sad not cute or funny.

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> > >

> >

> > > Have a beautiful day

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> > > " There's nothing between you and love but unquestioned

concepts. "

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