Re: about NC

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Hi Katrina,

That seems to be a fairly typical nada reaction to nc. I know with

mine, it started with a giant fight where I said enough. Nada was

angry with me for months and refused to contact me. I had already

decided nc myself - so it was truely a relief. It bought me some time

to get myself together. I think she thought one of us would cave

eventually. Instead, I changed my number and moved a few months

later. My nc is coming up on 3 years this summer. It is a rough path

but worth it in my case.

Hope all goes well for you too. I try and think that there are worse

things to be other than an " orphan " . Like being nada's punching

bag...that would suck worse.

Take care,

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> Hi friends

>

> I have been NC about 2 1/2 months now, which is truly wonderful

for me, and I absolutely don't want to go back to being in contact for

anything!

>

> But, I am a bit down because in all this time nada has made no

effort to contact me. She really has never cared for me. this doesn't

surprise me, I've known this my whole life, but I feel sad about it.

I never had a mother.

>

> Also, when I asked the FOO neighbor, who is on my side and I am

good friends with her, yet she also knows what is going on with the

FOO. When i asked her about this " don't you think it's strange she

hasn't even asked about me? " her first reaction was to say, " well she

still can't get over when you were up here and had that argument with

her " . We had several big arguments last time I was there, nada and

me (who do you think instigated them in order to make me react and

look bad?) and one time I reacted very strongly, and that is what the

neighbor is referring to.

>

> I think back to things nada said to me or said about me and it

hurts. How can someone be so cruel? Just between two humans it is

cruelty, and then, it is her own child. It sucks.

>

> But I am growing into this NC every day, and I will NEVER ever be

in contact again. I really am better off recognizing myself as an

orphan. It makes me sad. I guess I am grieving. boo hoo

>

> Katrina.

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