Nada stuff

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Hi everyone! I've just returned from " vacation " with nada and dad and

have come to the conclusion that my nada doesn't know how to ask for

what she wants. She either forces us to guess and punishes us for

being wrong or just throws a tantrum. Trish

………..I recognize this in my nada also; it is crazy making of the

highest order. There are pouts, hints and off the wall comments

made constantly to keep the emotional climate during a visit in the

crazy zone. The last visit (two years ago) I took xanax the entire

visit to keep from running out the door screaming. Nada even made

the remark that I was certainly a LOT calmer this visit. Duh.

Sometimes a situation becomes a black comedy. Nada spent an hour

and a half informing me how much money was spent on my step

brother's educations and then chewed me out because I did not take

her out and pay for her lunch BYW, my income is less than 1/8 of

brothers). She was incensed that I traveled 800 miles (I rent a car

because my model is getting older) and she HAD to buy me lunch. I

think her timing is just a little off LOL. Why does nada get to

make up all the rules? ? ? ? take care, mg