Re: To and All

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> Alot of you guys out there help me

> more than you know. I don't know what I would do without you guys

> right now. It has been so hard these past 8 months-or my whole

> life-HA

> HA, but the past 8 months so many things have changed and so have I.

I think that sometimes getting over our Nadas/Fadas is at times more

painful and uncertain than what we were doing before. Or at least we're

more aware of how unhappy we are.

Has anyone here had the guts to *forgive* what happened? Because

sometimes I have a REAL problem there, even though I know I don't have a

choice if I am going to 'get over' Yeti.

Maybe I still have lots of anger to 'process'. Anger thats not dealt

with is quite often inflicted on others (eg look at our lovely BPs) so

processing that might be the most useful thing I can do at the moment. I

just wish it wasn't so uncomfortable :-(.

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>Has anyone here had the guts to *forgive* what happened? Because

> sometimes I have a REAL problem there, even though I know I don't have a

> choice if I am going to 'get over' Yeti.

Just a thought. I really don't worry about forgiving so much as

letting go. If I can succeed at letting go, I won't really need to

forgive as such because I won't be obsessing over it any more. Of

course, the things I have to forgive are probably different from yours

or any other person on the board. I can sense that many here have

been damaged in more serious ways than I was. I was one of the lucky

ones in that my nada was not much of a witch.

I'm concentrating on letting go so that my energy isn't used up

thinking through those things any more. That is what works for me. Dee