RE: Question?

January 30, 2006

Hello ,

If your friend is co-dependent I have 3 words that should scare the hell out

of her (might scare her off) but will be absolutely necessary. Borders,

borders, borders.

In severing ties if that is what you are choosing to do, there's no way to

make it look like you aren't severing ties, but there's a nice way to do it.

However if she's codependent she'll probably feel hurt even then. So I'm not

sure there.

Question?

How do I tell my codependent friend I can't have in my life anymore.

She is to destructive and abusive. I will not allow anyone anymore to

make me there emotional dumping group. I wish her well. I wish with

all my heart I didn't have to say goodbye, but I know I must. How did

anyone out there handle saying goodbye to the ones you love but can't

have in your life? How do find the right words?

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