Re: Save Implants? Help

[Guest guest]

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I'm so sorry you feel so bad about your body - but

glad you found your way here.

Please take the time to read though the old messages .

.. . Try to follow several women as they come to the

group, decide to get their implants out and begin to

get well. . . .

One thing you'll learn is how unimportant the size or

shape of ones breasts become in relation to ones

health! . . . Without health, nothing else matters!

Now, regarding your own appearance. The only

recommendation I would make is to see a good plastic

surgeon about a mastopexy (lift). . . The surgeon will

remove the extra tissue, move the nipple up, giving

you a lift. . . Usually women are very happy with the

outcome. In many cases (I'm including myself here),

that's what should have been done, instead of implants

in the first place!

As for your depression . . . Are you sure it's

completely related to your breasts? . . . Considering

all the other body parts we can lose, breasts are

pretty well at the bottom of the list! . . .

Were you sick before you had your implants removed?

Were the capsules completely removed? How are you

feeling now? . . . Are you following a really healthy

diet? . . . I'd recommend " The Maker's Diet " .

Seriously consider eliminating ALL sugar and refined

grains from your diet. Most women who've been

implanted have a systemic Candida/yeast/fungus

problem. That alone can make one feel depressed,

fatigued and just plain awful! . . .

Let's see if we can help you get back to where you are

feeling good! . . . We have a lot of information in

the archives and a bunch of wonderful women who are

exceptionally knowledgable and want to see women

recover from their breast implant experience!

Hugs and prayers,

Rogene

[Guest guest]

Hi there, I am just getting caught up on posts again and I don't know if anyone answered your letter or not, but I wanted to let you know that so many of us have been where you are right now with this. I had the very same issues going on with my breasts, since I breastfed my 4 kids and they looked very deflated and saggy. That was why I got breast implants. At explant, I had a breast lift and that has helped tremendously. My husband is very happy with my breasts and I am too. The lift was probably just what I should have had in the first place, but of course, doctors tell us that implants are safe and don't make us sick. That was just so wrong in my case. Wanting to put them back in is a normal emotion for many women who have been unable to resolve their feelings about their body and self image. I know this is a hard time for you....having your husband leave

you is a terrible thing to go through. I will pray that you will be able to find some healing by talking with us on this group. Your self confidence should be about so much more than your breasts....because you are more valuable than your breasts. It is hard in this society and with our cultural views regarding breasts to see ourselves apart from them, but in order for you to be healthy emotionally, it is important that you learn to love yourself for who you are and not what you look like. In the end, when it all comes down to what is important and what is not, life is about relationships and love and giving of ourselves to others, rather than what we can accomplish or accumulate or prove about ourselves. Happiness is a state of mind. Breast implants are just a huge deception, a fraud and a fake source of esteem that takes away more than it gives. They

really do not make you any more attractive than you can already be when you are confident of who you are. And in God's eyes, you are extremely valuable and important....just the way you are. I don't want you to feel that I am invalidating your feelings at all...I know this is a tough time for you. It is hard to fix these kinds of issues through a few words on the computer, and will take time and hard work through self-introspection and sharing with others to get through it, but it is my hope that my few words will help bring a little light into the darkness for you. Take care, Pattypower4jessica <power4jessica@...> wrote: I got my implants removed last summer ( from C to A cup ), and they look deflect and deform right now. There are sag and

winkles everywhere. I am an attractive Asian woman with clothes on my body, but I look like 80 years old lady's breasts once I got my clothes remove ( I am only 37 years old ) My husband left me 2 months ago, because I was depressed since I'd them removed and I refused to have any intimacy with him...I lost my self confidence, and I do not know what to do. Any save implants yet? I know it sounds silly, but I really want to put them back.

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