Re: Black & White Thinking

[Guest guest]

Sometimes I do that too. It was so ingrained in us. About your friend,

remeber that there is comfort in what we know even if it is unhealthy.

Just be aware of that. My theropist said I have to develop radar on

who's good for me and who's bad. I think I'm well on my way to

that.Had to say goodbye to a codependent friend. She was to

destructive to my well being. Still don't feel like I quite fit in

with the " normal " people, though. They didn't have what we had so I

feel how could they ever understand. I think thats the way we see

ourselves-that projection from our BPD's. I don't think the so

called " normal " people see us that way. They see us as " normal "