Guest guest Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 Christene . . . Maybe that irritable hubby will slip you the money it takes to get your surgery over with so you can both move on! . . . A court could stick him with separate maintence as long as you're still sick! It's wonderful that insurance will cover your explant though! . . . That should be a huge relief! How about contacting the Alanta surgeon and getting in for a consult? . . . You may not need a lift after all! Hugs and prayers, Rogene Quote
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 He's already going to have to pay Spousal Support for forever. We've been married almost 14 years and he makes a pleasant amount of money. But he is not paying a dime right now. He is determined for whatever reason to watch me suffer the consequences of his desire to end the marriage. On the way home from the doctor I was thinking that perhaps he should be forced to foot the bill for the lift but then I thought he should be willing to pay because if it takes me ten years to save up the money, that's just ten more years of his life in limbo as well. Overall, I am very pleased that a PS will perform the procedure instead of a General Surgeon. It makes the thought much easier to bear. I planned on scheduling the consult today, but the tears are still rolling down my cheeks too much. Everytime I think I've stopped, they start again. I'm so flippin miserable with it all.... Christene > > Christene . . . > > Maybe that irritable hubby will slip you the money it > takes to get your surgery over with so you can both > move on! . . . A court could stick him with separate > maintence as long as you're still sick! > > It's wonderful that insurance will cover your explant > though! . . . That should be a huge relief! > > How about contacting the Alanta surgeon and getting in > for a consult? . . . You may not need a lift after > all! > > Hugs and prayers, > > Rogene > Quote
Guest guest Posted April 20, 2006 Report Posted April 20, 2006 Awwwwwww, thanks for calling out to me!! Christene, you will get through this. Last year I was at my lowest of all lows, I had those horrible implants in me, I was sick as a dog, my husband was a monster, and I had no job. I honestly couldn't imagine that life was ever going to be good again, and I had all I could do to keep my head above water. Somehow I got through it, and I am so glad it's behind me. I'm working now, and I'm thrilled with the company and my job. Lately I've been feeling a little better, and life is starting to fall back into place. If my husband is a monster again, I'm a working girl now and I won't feel so helpless, plus I'll be stronger and I'll put him in his place. Everything will happen in it's time, so just sit back and watch everything unfold. You're going to go through some hard times at first, but just when you're at the end of your rope, something will happen and everything will turn around. Just keep doing what you're doing - look for answers, find the right surgeon, and then kick old hubby to the curb. When that's taken care of, you can move on with your life - and your new beginning will happen when it's time. Hang on!! Sis > > All this time waiting to get in to see the surgeon....WASTED! She just turned around and referred me out to Atlanta Plastic Surgery anyway. > I guess that's good news because the procedure is still 100% covered, but if I want the mastopexy/lift I have to pay for it. Understandable, but it will take me a thousand years to save up that $. Hello! I don't work anymore. Aside of that, I'm trying to leave this forsaken place and move on with my life. Now, I'm stuck here even longer! I don't know if I should scream or cry. > And the longer t is divorce takes, the more irritable my husband becomes. > > Sis? Hellllllppppp! > Quote
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2006 Report Posted April 21, 2006 Christene Things will look up. I am sure they will. We just have to get through the bad to get to the good sometimes! And there are good men out there. There really are! I am sure that there is someone out there that will be the love of your life. Now you have the chance to meet him. Good things will happen. Hugs, Kathy > > Christene . . . > > I've got your hubby's type now! . . . My daughter's ex > is making good money, yet refuses to pay more than > token child support for his two children. He wants my > daughter to struggle! . . He's taken my daughter back > to court four times to get child support reduced . . . > The last time he was unemployed, so it was dropped to > almost nothing. She's spent so much in attorney's fees > (the last two took her money and did nothing) that > she's just biding her time until her new hubby > finishes his degree. Then she will be able to keep the > A****** in court the rest of his life! > > In the meantime, it's the kids who suffer because they > don't have the little extras. . . They're old enough > now to see the difference between their father's life > style and their own . . . It will affect their > relationship with their father forever! - And he > thinks he's a wonderful father! My daughter supported > this jerk the majority of the time they were married! > > What is it about some men that makes them so rotten? > > Hang in there Christene . . . something will break > your way (insurance covering your explant sounds like > one break) . . and things will start getting better! > > Hugs, > > Rogene > Quote
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.