Anyone ever deal with this? Sorry long post

July 7, 2006

I am finding that being emotionally unhealthy all those years,

naturally I have collected dysfuntional people along the way.

I have severed ties with all but the office manager.

Today I get a phone call from the sister of the assistant that I

fired about a month ago. This was the assitant that accused me of

cheating him out of money and causing his life to be in disarray and

in debt.

She tried to sugar coat it, but she asked me about cheating him out

of money and told me I was not faultless in her brothers behavior

and I was unorginaized and unproffessional.

I couldn't believe she had the nevre!! I held my temper and said

their were 2 sides to each story and she had the right to think what

ever she wanted of me, however, I am the boss and the owner and I

run my business as I see fit. If her brother had any questions to

call the office and talk to my payroll person.

IS THE WHOLE WORLD NUTS??????

I can't seem to get these nuts to leave me the heck alone. Have any

of you experienced, other than FOO, friends of associates that just

will not go away?

My office manager has tourtured me while I am supposed to be on

vacation. I have started working on getting out of my lease and

setting up a home office, but it takes time to do it the right way.

She is laying the needy guilt trip on me. She is unawre of me

kicking her to the curb. She is aware of me going homebound. I made

the mistake of saying something in front of her. I just let her

think we are going to do this wireless. I hate to be lying to her.

I am afraid of the remifactions with her. How do I get out of this?

I will once again be the bad guy who kicked a divorced mother to the

curb with no alternatives. Even worse she will probabley be

vendictive and try to skrew me in business somehow. See is like a

parasite. SOOOO needy. She uses me in her lies to her mother, she

doesn't think twice about asking to use my credit card to order

something on line-I said no way. She is using me for her own

dependent needy crap! She called me last night and said promise me

you won't leave me till I get my own license. If she would have done

what I told her to do 2 years ago she would be getting it by now.

Instead she opted to find someone to use for awhile. I know I am

rambling-Sorry. The dependency and guilt trips are like nada without

the rage. What do I tell her and when about doing it along?

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