Helpless People (Sorry Major Vent)

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Ata recently posted about being fed up with helpless people, GOD DO

I UNDERSTAND! I have a young aunt who is pregnant with # 2. My

young aunt is totally taking advantage of my grandma right now while

she is going thru the chemo and it makes me and my older aunt raging

mad but bound to say and do nothing. My grandma has a endless

excuses for her. " Oh she can't go here with out help from me because

she is pregnant and needs my help " Her baby is always spending the

night at my grandma's house and grandma is watching her about half

of the week. So why does she get special treatment? At this point

the rest of the family is working on treating grandma special not

sucking the life out of her. I asked my older aunt why she didn't

say anything to her younger sister who is treating her mother like

this and she said " I am afraid she will react like your mom and blow

my hair back then my mom will take her side to calm her down and

everybody will be mad " I am so fed up with my grandma trying

to " make peace " and think the world of my dad and this young aunt I

could puke!!!! Why does it seem like you can only win in life if you

are manipulative or make a lot of mistakes and don't admit them?

On top of it my young aunt who is always taking advantage of my

grandma is on my case all the time " water your grass, help your

husband cut the grass, go get a job " GRRRR!!! We do water our grass

and FYI It is the best looking grass on the block, every time he

cuts I rake behind him, if she would get out of the bars and come

see me maybe she would know that! And by the way I have said to

her " I DON'T WANT A JOB! I just don't want to work now and my

husband is fine with that because he likes coming home and having 4

course meals with desserts and the laundry done and the house

cleaned and the kids taught. HE WANTS ME HERE! " I wish she would get

off my back but gripping wont change anything and telling her wont

change anything because her mouth is working overtime and her ears

are on strike. God knows I love her I am just annoyed and its hard

to communicate with her.

I just don't understand why my grandma thinks she needs help

billions of pregnant women before and after her have had more than

one baby and made it with out somebody watching the first baby while

they were pregnant with the second baby, hello the whole thing is

confusing. And let's face it what is worse being pregnant or having

cancer, surgery and chemo? My young aunt is the only person I know

who is incapable of taking her baby grocery shopping with her. And

for the record I have never seen a better baby in my life I have

never seen this baby cry if all babies were that good people would

be pregnant left and right and the planet would be overpopulated. I

can't understand not taking my kids with to the store and Dr and

parade and while I clean house because that is what stay at home

moms do. parade (yes she had my grandma babysit so she could go to a

parade a few days after my grandma chemo can we all say b#$ch I

think my older aunt almost blew that day!) If I can do it with 2

why does she need a cancer patient to help her with her 1? AUGH

Sorry for the giant vent. Love, Lizzy