Guest guest Posted January 26, 2006 Report Share Posted January 26, 2006 Sorry to hear that you have joined our little club, and as you're finding out, the "initiation handshake" has special complications.Bob Munk already guided you to information, and the question has been dealth with many times on this list.Still, I'd say that in my experience, the more open you are with your status, the more comfortable you will be. It is very rare that a negative partner is delighted to learn that their consort is positive, and has been hiding that secret. If you want more than a one night fling, the sooner you bring up the subject, the better. And never forget that sometimes, the answer is "me too."Delusional types who run away screaming are best avoided, in the first place.On Jan 26, 2006, at 3:20 PM, PozHealth wrote:I am a 39 year old positive male needs to know what is considered "safe- sex" and just what can I do safely if anything befoe notifying my partner about my status. I want to be open and up front but it is not always easy. Any positive sugestions would be greatly apreciated. I find it hard finding people who will discus this topic openly. Barrowpozbod@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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