Guest guest Posted May 5, 2004 Report Share Posted May 5, 2004 I'm sorry Senthil. I did not mean to offend your religious beliefs. I don't need Jesus for security. It's more like spiritual guidance and salvation. The belief that after this world is done there is some kind of afterlife. I don't know. Hard to explain. Angie > > > Why are you so bitter? Why blame women? Yes, bad things happen to > > > everyone. Stop acting like a victim and take control of your life. > > > You are ultimately responsible for the way you feel. If you don't > > > like it, change it. Victim attitude says I can't do anything, > > > everyone and everything is against me. Are you abused? Take control > > > and change your situation! You are a direct result of all the > > > decisions you have made in your life up to now. Hate is the result > > of > > > victimization. God has every reason to hate you for all the stupid > > > things you do every day (we all do), yet He extends His hand of > > > forgiveness through Jesus Christ. That's pretty powerful love if > > you > > > ask me. If Jesus offends you, take the essence of all religion (we > > > all believe in something) and understand that it is based on love > > and > > > service to your fellow man. If you spend more time loving and > > serving > > > this stops the focus on your suffering, on self, thereby removing > > it > > > entirely. If you act in love and service, you can't possibly hate. > > > No matter what you believe, believe in the power of love and > > service. > > > You can change people by changing yourself! > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 5, 2004 Report Share Posted May 5, 2004 Hi Angie, > It's more like spiritual guidance and salvation. Thats what exactly what I mean is! why do you want guidance, salvation,I dont know the exact meaning,wordweb says something like The state of being saved or preserved from harm,so you need somebody to protect you.thats what security means,I am taking about psychological or emotional security.thats what we seek from god.you pray god more often when you are under stress.you can see school children they start praying god when they have got exam.you feel there is a uncertainty I have got interview,I wanted to be selected but I may be selected also.so,there is uncertainity exist in your brain.uncertainity causes anxious,fear etc,etc.we seek certainity by creating an super power (I read in one article so many children believes that god will be like super man!,LOL) and believing it.this what happening in this world interms of religion.we use god for selfishness! I have to win the match, pray god,I have to come first, pray god,my health should improve, pray god.my life is highly insecure.I dont know when I fall ill.I am very much feared of what people thinks about me. I am very tired people hurts me.thats guy cheated me.my god, I cheated another guy.it gives me guilty.my neighbour is more rich than me,when we both goto club people respect only him not me.I feel jealous and envy.my heart pains since my ego is hurt, I will work hard or do somethingelse so that I become richer than him.my rateing in the tennis game is no 1 for last 2 years.now one new guy has come and he is playing wonderfully.itseems like he may be become number one.my god,what will happene to my status, I should work hard,infact I did,though I last and moved to 5 place at the end of this year.now people forgot me and they go behind that guy.it pains me somehow I will work hard ......... well,we have got nightmares in the life,our life is full of misery, there is no security. apart from that I am afraid of dead,(its very interesting to think why one is afraid of death).I dont know what will happen to me after my death.I am not able to accept death.I imagine myself there is a life after this.if I did what is written exactly in scriptures then I go to heaven,otherwise I go to hell. I think older days those religious people really intelligent' in the sense they know that if they just preach people dont listen to them,thats why they have made concept like hell and heaven. they want to bring order by making use of fear.dont feel jealous, dont feel envy,dont hurt others,dont try to destory others,dont feel so great in yourself (well,infact if do all these then you may have wonderful life on this earth) etc,etc.but people who prays god only does maximum all those opposite things which told by those religious people.there is a problem at somewhere,probably the methodology they have adapted. there is little value given to awarness,they promoted adoration and adoration does nothing infact! Many Greetings, Senthil Kumar.S. > I'm sorry Senthil. I did not mean to offend your religious beliefs. > I don't need Jesus for security. It's more like spiritual guidance > and salvation. The belief that after this world is done there is some > kind of afterlife. I don't know. Hard to explain. > > Angie > > > > > > Why are you so bitter? Why blame women? Yes, bad things happen > to > > > > everyone. Stop acting like a victim and take control of your > life. > > > > You are ultimately responsible for the way you feel. If you > don't > > > > like it, change it. Victim attitude says I can't do anything, > > > > everyone and everything is against me. Are you abused? Take > control > > > > and change your situation! You are a direct result of all the > > > > decisions you have made in your life up to now. Hate is the > result > > > of > > > > victimization. God has every reason to hate you for all the > stupid > > > > things you do every day (we all do), yet He extends His hand of > > > > forgiveness through Jesus Christ. That's pretty powerful love > if > > > you > > > > ask me. If Jesus offends you, take the essence of all religion > (we > > > > all believe in something) and understand that it is based on > love > > > and > > > > service to your fellow man. If you spend more time loving and > > > serving > > > > this stops the focus on your suffering, on self, thereby > removing > > > it > > > > entirely. If you act in love and service, you can't possibly > hate. > > > > No matter what you believe, believe in the power of love and > > > service. > > > > You can change people by changing yourself! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 5, 2004 Report Share Posted May 5, 2004 Hi Angie, > It's more like spiritual guidance and salvation. Thats what exactly what I mean is! why do you want guidance, salvation,I dont know the exact meaning,wordweb says something like The state of being saved or preserved from harm,so you need somebody to protect you.thats what security means,I am taking about psychological or emotional security.thats what we seek from god.you pray god more often when you are under stress.you can see school children they start praying god when they have got exam.you feel there is a uncertainty I have got interview,I wanted to be selected but I may be selected also.so,there is uncertainity exist in your brain.uncertainity causes anxious,fear etc,etc.we seek certainity by creating an super power (I read in one article so many children believes that god will be like super man!,LOL) and believing it.this what happening in this world interms of religion.we use god for selfishness! I have to win the match, pray god,I have to come first, pray god,my health should improve, pray god.my life is highly insecure.I dont know when I fall ill.I am very much feared of what people thinks about me. I am very tired people hurts me.thats guy cheated me.my god, I cheated another guy.it gives me guilty.my neighbour is more rich than me,when we both goto club people respect only him not me.I feel jealous and envy.my heart pains since my ego is hurt, I will work hard or do somethingelse so that I become richer than him.my rateing in the tennis game is no 1 for last 2 years.now one new guy has come and he is playing wonderfully.itseems like he may be become number one.my god,what will happene to my status, I should work hard,infact I did,though I last and moved to 5 place at the end of this year.now people forgot me and they go behind that guy.it pains me somehow I will work hard ......... well,we have got nightmares in the life,our life is full of misery, there is no security. apart from that I am afraid of dead,(its very interesting to think why one is afraid of death).I dont know what will happen to me after my death.I am not able to accept death.I imagine myself there is a life after this.if I did what is written exactly in scriptures then I go to heaven,otherwise I go to hell. I think older days those religious people really intelligent' in the sense they know that if they just preach people dont listen to them,thats why they have made concept like hell and heaven. they want to bring order by making use of fear.dont feel jealous, dont feel envy,dont hurt others,dont try to destory others,dont feel so great in yourself (well,infact if do all these then you may have wonderful life on this earth) etc,etc.but people who prays god only does maximum all those opposite things which told by those religious people.there is a problem at somewhere,probably the methodology they have adapted. there is little value given to awarness,they promoted adoration and adoration does nothing infact! Many Greetings, Senthil Kumar.S. > I'm sorry Senthil. I did not mean to offend your religious beliefs. > I don't need Jesus for security. It's more like spiritual guidance > and salvation. The belief that after this world is done there is some > kind of afterlife. I don't know. Hard to explain. > > Angie > > > > > > Why are you so bitter? Why blame women? Yes, bad things happen > to > > > > everyone. Stop acting like a victim and take control of your > life. > > > > You are ultimately responsible for the way you feel. If you > don't > > > > like it, change it. Victim attitude says I can't do anything, > > > > everyone and everything is against me. Are you abused? Take > control > > > > and change your situation! You are a direct result of all the > > > > decisions you have made in your life up to now. Hate is the > result > > > of > > > > victimization. God has every reason to hate you for all the > stupid > > > > things you do every day (we all do), yet He extends His hand of > > > > forgiveness through Jesus Christ. That's pretty powerful love > if > > > you > > > > ask me. If Jesus offends you, take the essence of all religion > (we > > > > all believe in something) and understand that it is based on > love > > > and > > > > service to your fellow man. If you spend more time loving and > > > serving > > > > this stops the focus on your suffering, on self, thereby > removing > > > it > > > > entirely. If you act in love and service, you can't possibly > hate. > > > > No matter what you believe, believe in the power of love and > > > service. > > > > You can change people by changing yourself! > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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