Re: LILYEN WOULD LIKE PRAYER

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In a message dated 1/21/2005 11:51:32 A.M. Central Standard Time,

jokes_4_car_54@... writes:

My surgery is on this coming Wed.I am sure

with two doctor's taking care of me I will be ok...but ........I am not

being reasonable now just worried.....Love Lilyen.

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Lilyen,

I was more scared with my second surgery. I think it is normal having

had a major surgery so soon after the DS. Think of the good benefits, like the

uterus will be gone so it can't be a problem later. The hernia will be gone

so no more pain. If I remember right your doing the TT also so the benefits

are obvious there. Think good thoughts and vent here as needed.

I had an anxiety attack a weeks or 2 before my TT. It was related to

meds but the anxiety was a factor. I got it in my head that I was going to die

in surgery and not live till my 40th birthday in October. Anxiety is normal

with any surgery. And your having a lot of reason for anxiety. I had to stop

and make myself think that the was no use in worrying about the what ifs and

waiting and seeing what the actual reality is.

Big hugs.......

Mel

http://hometown.aol.com/mdl1031/

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Lilyen... slow down... take a deep breath. No... take five deep breaths!

This is the right time for the surgery. You are in our prayers and I

believe God holds you in the hollow of His hand.

Anxiety is normal, so don't stress over that you are having stress!

Sometimes organizing something can be calming. Don't take on a big project

like a closet... open up the silverware drawer and reorganize the stainless

ware.

Buy/rent a silly movie! Treat yourself to a bubble bath... or some treat

you enjoy. Have a small glass of wine.... or buy yourself some gourmet tea

and enjoy a visit with someone who makes you smile.

Elle

LILYEN WOULD LIKE PRAYER

For some reason this week has been so stressful for me. I wasn't this

nervous when I got my D.S. two years ago...I am now though. I would sure

like it if you guys stuck me in your prayer pockets.now....

[Guest guest]

Lilyen... slow down... take a deep breath. No... take five deep breaths!

This is the right time for the surgery. You are in our prayers and I

believe God holds you in the hollow of His hand.

Anxiety is normal, so don't stress over that you are having stress!

Sometimes organizing something can be calming. Don't take on a big project

like a closet... open up the silverware drawer and reorganize the stainless

ware.

Buy/rent a silly movie! Treat yourself to a bubble bath... or some treat

you enjoy. Have a small glass of wine.... or buy yourself some gourmet tea

and enjoy a visit with someone who makes you smile.

Elle

LILYEN WOULD LIKE PRAYER

For some reason this week has been so stressful for me. I wasn't this

nervous when I got my D.S. two years ago...I am now though. I would sure

like it if you guys stuck me in your prayer pockets.now....

[Guest guest]

Lilyen,

You most certainly have my prayers.

Sometimes thing are not what they seem. For the last few weeks I was worried

about a pain in my lower pelvic area on the right side. I had my right tube

removed in 2004 because it was severely twisted, damaged, full of fluid, and

had peritineal (sp?) cysts coming out of it. I was so afraid that it was

something serious and that I was going to lose all of my " equiptment " before I

got to even use it! Then someone started talking about kidney stones and it

hit me like a rock! I have been drinking more tea lately. My D level was just

declared low and I had to start on ADEKs and I haven't been drinking as much

water as I had when it was warmer. BUSTED. I got with the program,

increased my calcium, water, and D (ADEKs) and have only had tea once this week

(and

I took calcium/Tums when I did that). I feel sooooo much better.

We love you!

Keep us updated!

in WA

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.........I am not

> being reasonable now just worried.....Love Lilyen.

Lilyen, worry, what can I say about it? nothing we can do about it,

just give you our support and prayers. We are here for you.

Marta

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> For some reason this week has been so stressful for me. I wasn't

this

> nervous when I got my D.S. two years ago...I am now though. I

would sure

> like it if you guys stuck me in your prayer pockets.now. My hernia

hurts, my

> fear that I may have waited too long to get the hysterectomy and

there may

> be something growing ugly in there...Oh just all kinds a fear. I

was in a

> store trying to get bathtub and toilets for my rebuilt house and

it was just

> too much ....We had to leave..Harry has shut down the project till

I am

> recovered....will I recover? This is stupid but..I feel so much

stress

> and I just don't know what to do. My surgery is on this coming

Wed.I am sure

> with two doctor's taking care of me I will be ok...but ........I

am not

> being reasonable now just worried.....Love Lilyen.

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Moody Blues,we all get them,and please know that you are

in this prayer pocket....You are in God's hands and he

will take care of you, sides we want that peddling wheelchair

lady around for a long time...

God's blessings to you and Harry

Pat

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> For some reason this week has been so stressful for me. I wasn't

this nervous when I got my D.S. two years ago...I am now though. I

would sure like it if you guys stuck me in your prayer pockets.now.

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Lilyen

I think it is a normal reaction that you are feeling. I know I felt

the same way with my second surgery.

When we had the DS - we were ready to do anything it took to get our

lives back. Anything.

Now we (for the most part) feel great and dont want to give up any

time it will take to heal, as we have gotten our lives back and arent

so ready to give it up.

Lilyen, this is just my take on it. You need the hernia surgery and

the hysterectomy. You will have the prayers of all of us, I will be

saying special prayers for peace and healing. You will do great,

remember, this too shall pass and you are going to feel even better

on the other side of this surgery.....

prayers for your peace in your heart, and for healing of your body,

Sharon in Onyx

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Hi Lilyen,

You are definitely in my prayers! I understand your fears but I

have faith that you'll be all right.

Big hugs!

Tracey

> For some reason this week has been so stressful for me. I wasn't

this

> nervous when I got my D.S. two years ago...I am now though. I

would sure

> like it if you guys stuck me in your prayer pockets.now. My hernia

hurts, my

> fear that I may have waited too long to get the hysterectomy and

there may

> be something growing ugly in there...Oh just all kinds a fear. I

was in a

> store trying to get bathtub and toilets for my rebuilt house and

it was just

> too much ....We had to leave..Harry has shut down the project till

I am

> recovered....will I recover? This is stupid but..I feel so much

stress

> and I just don't know what to do. My surgery is on this coming

Wed.I am sure

> with two doctor's taking care of me I will be ok...but ........I

am not

> being reasonable now just worried.....Love Lilyen.

[Guest guest]

Hi Lilyen,

You are definitely in my prayers! I understand your fears but I

have faith that you'll be all right.

Big hugs!

Tracey

> For some reason this week has been so stressful for me. I wasn't

this

> nervous when I got my D.S. two years ago...I am now though. I

would sure

> like it if you guys stuck me in your prayer pockets.now. My hernia

hurts, my

> fear that I may have waited too long to get the hysterectomy and

there may

> be something growing ugly in there...Oh just all kinds a fear. I

was in a

> store trying to get bathtub and toilets for my rebuilt house and

it was just

> too much ....We had to leave..Harry has shut down the project till

I am

> recovered....will I recover? This is stupid but..I feel so much

stress

> and I just don't know what to do. My surgery is on this coming

Wed.I am sure

> with two doctor's taking care of me I will be ok...but ........I

am not

> being reasonable now just worried.....Love Lilyen.