Guest guest Posted March 30, 2006 Report Posted March 30, 2006 Oh Stevie, I am sorry I can't help with your meds advice, except to say at this stage of his journey, Me. B. should be taking whatever will steady the ride. Not sure what that should be. How sweet and trusting of him to put the decision to us. Alleviates the burden for you to a degree. I've been wondering how you and he are doing. Sorry to hear of his discomfort. I hope you are holding up and keeping healthy. He's a strong man and you need to hold in there for him. Many loving thoughts from Canada , Oakville Ont. Mom 92, 12 1/2 years " Parkinsons " 3 years ago LBD diagnosis, evident much longer in hindsight. Encouraged to give up her licence 6 years ago. Currently immobile, in tilt wheelchair, spoonfed pureed food. Spends most of days behind closed eyes. NH. Eltroxin, Tylenol twice a day. > > Hello All.....I have a quick question concerning meds. Mr. B was just > reassessed by Hospice because he wouldn't take any meds at all even though he is > still in pain because of the severe reactions to the meds. So, Hospice has given > him two different Rx's to try for pain and shortness of breath. The first > one is Trilisate Liquid - 500 MG/5ML, and the second one is a substitute for > Morphine; Oxyfast Concentrate 20 MG/ML. Mr. B is willing to take these meds but > ONLY with your approval! : ) > > I thank you all in advance for any information concerning LBD patients and > these medications. > > Much Peace to All on this fine evening, Stevie > > Stevie in So. California > LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. > Lives in my home - 3 yrs. > DX Parkinson's 1993 > DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD > End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have > started up again. > Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, > Amitriptyline > Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the > same since > Daily BP usually 68/52 > Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Posted March 31, 2006 Hello Sharon....Thank you for your encouragement. So far so good. I gave him a dose of the Trilisate Liquid and the pain has subsided and the puppies have not returned as of yet! He said he is " comfortable " even though it makes him a bit weaker (I told him it made him more relaxed), and he is willing to continue with the medication. Maybe we found another drug that LBDers can take? That would be nice! Much love, prayers and so much Peace sent to you, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain * * * * * * * * i have never heard about these meds with lbd, but i think i would recommend trying it to see if it helps him, most of the time one dose is enough to tell if it is a negative effect. i would rather see him comfortable then miserable, my personal opinion only tho hugs sharon m From: juperant@... Date: 2006/03/30 Thu PM 09:50:25 EST To: LBDcaregivers Subject: Quick question re: Meds Hello All.....I have a quick question concerning meds. Mr. B was just reassessed by Hospice because he wouldn't take any meds at all even though he is still in pain because of the severe reactions to the meds. So, Hospice has given him two different Rx's to try for pain and shortness of breath. The first one is Trilisate Liquid - 500 MG/5ML, and the second one is a substitute for Morphine; Oxyfast Concentrate 20 MG/ML. Mr. B is willing to take these meds but ONLY with your approval! : ) I thank you all in advance for any information concerning LBD patients and these medications. Much Peace to All on this fine evening, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Quote
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Posted March 31, 2006 i have never heard about these meds with lbd, but i think i would recommend trying it to see if it helps him, most of the time one dose is enough to tell if it is a negative effect. i would rather see him comfortable then miserable, my personal opinion only tho hugs sharon m From: juperant@... Date: 2006/03/30 Thu PM 09:50:25 EST To: LBDcaregivers Subject: Quick question re: Meds Hello All.....I have a quick question concerning meds. Mr. B was just reassessed by Hospice because he wouldn't take any meds at all even though he is still in pain because of the severe reactions to the meds. So, Hospice has given him two different Rx's to try for pain and shortness of breath. The first one is Trilisate Liquid - 500 MG/5ML, and the second one is a substitute for Morphine; Oxyfast Concentrate 20 MG/ML. Mr. B is willing to take these meds but ONLY with your approval! : ) I thank you all in advance for any information concerning LBD patients and these medications. Much Peace to All on this fine evening, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Quote
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Posted March 31, 2006 Please give Mr. B my love and continued caring thoughts during this journey. After visiting Mom today, now 6 weeks off Aricept and seeing how low she is, she is now approaching his stage of life. Not eating much, needs encouragement to drink, hardly communicative. They are fairly parallel in timeline. She came back to us a bit for 3 short weeks, 1 of which I was ill with flu and missed, but now I fear there are no more tricks up the proverbial sleeve. I felt that after taking her off her antidepressant, a slight rally, and here we are again. Oh my. How difficult this is. I am so happy for you that you found the caregiver you have introduced us to. Yes, what a godsend he is. What an incredible relief. As you put more trust into him please do make more time for you and your husband. Life must go on and you need to remain healthy. Putting off the dentist is so easy to do, I've done it with caregiving needs imminent. Then the need for dental attention is more dire. Been there, as well as with medical neglect. The flu really seems to hit as enforced rest. Thank you for your kind words. We are in this together. Know that we care about you and Mr. B so keep us updated. , Oakville Ont. Mom 92, 12 1/2 years " Parkinsons " 3 years ago LBD diagnosis, evident much longer in hindsight. Encouraged to give up her licence 6 years ago. Currently immobile, in tilt wheelchair, spoonfed pureed food. Spends most of days behind closed eyes. Eltroxin, Tylenol twice a day. > > > > Hello All.....I have a quick question concerning meds. Mr. B was just > > reassessed by Hospice because he wouldn't take any meds at all even though > he is > > still in pain because of the severe reactions to the meds. So, Hospice has > given > > him two different Rx's to try for pain and shortness of breath. The first > > one is Trilisate Liquid - 500 MG/5ML, and the second one is a substitute > for > > Morphine; Oxyfast Concentrate 20 MG/ML. Mr. B is willing to take these meds > but > > ONLY with your approval! : ) > > > > I thank you all in advance for any information concerning LBD patients and > > these medications. > > > > Much Peace to All on this fine evening, Stevie > > > > Stevie in So. California > > LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. > > Lives in my home - 3 yrs. > > DX Parkinson's 1993 > > DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD > > End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have > > started up again. > > Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, > > Amitriptyline > > Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the > > same since > > Daily BP usually 68/52 > > Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. > > > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2006 Report Posted March 31, 2006 another possible good medicine all right i would love to have more on the good list, more on that list than the bad one like now. tell him hi and give yourself a hug, sharon m From: juperant@... Date: 2006/03/31 Fri PM 09:44:28 EST To: LBDcaregivers Subject: Re: Quick question re: Meds Hello Sharon....Thank you for your encouragement. So far so good. I gave him a dose of the Trilisate Liquid and the pain has subsided and the puppies have not returned as of yet! He said he is " comfortable " even though it makes him a bit weaker (I told him it made him more relaxed), and he is willing to continue with the medication. Maybe we found another drug that LBDers can take? That would be nice! Much love, prayers and so much Peace sent to you, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain * * * * * * * * i have never heard about these meds with lbd, but i think i would recommend trying it to see if it helps him, most of the time one dose is enough to tell if it is a negative effect. i would rather see him comfortable then miserable, my personal opinion only tho hugs sharon m From: juperant@... Date: 2006/03/30 Thu PM 09:50:25 EST To: LBDcaregivers Subject: Quick question re: Meds Hello All.....I have a quick question concerning meds. Mr. B was just reassessed by Hospice because he wouldn't take any meds at all even though he is still in pain because of the severe reactions to the meds. So, Hospice has given him two different Rx's to try for pain and shortness of breath. The first one is Trilisate Liquid - 500 MG/5ML, and the second one is a substitute for Morphine; Oxyfast Concentrate 20 MG/ML. Mr. B is willing to take these meds but ONLY with your approval! : ) I thank you all in advance for any information concerning LBD patients and these medications. Much Peace to All on this fine evening, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Quote
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Posted April 1, 2006 Stevie, I have been so busy these last few days, but read your message and wanted to respond. It is amazing that your Uncle is clear enough to know that he probably can trust this message Board quicker than the Medicinal people. I had to smile through that. One of the other things I did with Mom when she reacted badly to meds, is I gave her a smaller dose than they recommended. I would use half as much. Then it can sometimes be tolerated. I really don't think the Medical field gets that a small dose for most people is a huge dose for the people we need to give meds. Even on the DVD, the MD says " Start low, and go slow. " I think he gets it if he knows what low is to our people. Glad Mr. B trusts our messages. Donna R Do you want to read more about Lewy Body? You can also read the Thistle, the LBD Newsletter. Just click on: http://www.lewybodydementia.org Re: Quick question re: Meds Quote
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Posted April 1, 2006 Hello Donna, After three doses with this new medication he is " pain free " and still doing fine. We did start him off with a very low dose and will continue to do so until it is visually clear that he needs more, and he can handle a larger dose. As I said in an earlier message, he is a bit more " relaxed " and more willing to take a nap and is still asking to use this medication. If you remember my earlier posts, Mr. B is " afraid " to pass and does not want to " let go. " It is hard to watch a person struggle so to " hold on. " I think this medication will help the pain he " doesn't tell us about " and will calm him enough to be comfortable now and let things happen as they may. Ever since I found this message board several months ago, I have conversed with Mr. B about what " others " have been going through with this disease and he still asks me how " they " are doing. We have always been open and honest about what goes on in life and I tell him everything except the news about those who have passed as to not get him any more depressed than natural (there's that little white lie that is necessary). I have also told him about " Chip Gerber " and Mr. B commented that he was a " brave Soul " to be able to communicate his feelings to others and because of that he has decided to " donate " his brain for research (I am looking into the process). We are trying to turn this nightmare into a " lesson for others " so my Uncle will not go through this in vain. Mr. B has been a " giver " his whole life, helping anyone that needed a nudge and he has been happier knowing that he is " helping " to pave the road for those who will take this journey. It is hard for Mr. B to communicate, he is inaudible at times and just says one word or grunts a note or two. His sentences sound like garbling but I manage to find out what he is saying with a lot of patience. Sometimes he manages a " clear " word or two but that is getting rare. He is unable to do much else these days except weakly shake a visitors hand (he is and always was a perfect gentleman)! The only thing he has left is the hope that he is doing something " good " for others by going through this illness. I give him that. Thank you so much for responding when you are so busy. When I tell Mr. B about the " responses " he feels, even more, that he is " helping.' Much Peace sent to you and yours, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain - seems to be working * * * * * * * * * Stevie, I have been so busy these last few days, but read your message and wanted to respond. It is amazing that your Uncle is clear enough to know that he probably can trust this message Board quicker than the Medicinal people. I had to smile through that. One of the other things I did with Mom when she reacted badly to meds, is I gave her a smaller dose than they recommended. I would use half as much. Then it can sometimes be tolerated. I really don't think the Medical field gets that a small dose for most people is a huge dose for the people we need to give meds. Even on the DVD, the MD says " Start low, and go slow. " I think he gets it if he knows what low is to our people. Glad Mr. B trusts our messages. Donna R Quote
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Posted April 1, 2006 Hello , I thought I would add Mr. B's sailor picture because that is how I want to remember him. He LOVED his sailor days, and felt very fortunate to have been able to travel around the world. I am trying to get a hold of a University that is studying LBD and will be able to use the info in his brain : ) ...little pun there... There was a post from one of our members a few days ago (re: Dr. Lieberman's newsletter) that referred to a Doctor at California State at Irvine, which is just up the road from where I live, so I am trying to contact him. Thank you again . I send wonderful Peace and strength for you and your Mother, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. * * * * * * * * * * * * * Hi Stevie Your posts are always so informative and encouraging. I am relieved that Mr. B is pain free. It is also very apparent that Mr. B is a " giver " - with his caring about the 'others' on the board. You and he are lucky to have each other. And that he wants to 'donate' his brain for research is wonderful. I have a book that talks about donating your brain to research, but someone is borrowing it, but as I recall it says to contact a university and they will provide you with forms to fill out - I know Harvard has a " Brain Bank " . I'd also like to thank you for including the picture of Mr. B from his sailor days - I love old photos - he is such a handsome man. Thank you again for your posts. > > Hello Donna, > > After three doses with this new medication he is " pain free " and still doing > fine. We did start him off with a very low dose and will continue to do so > until it is visually clear that he needs more, and he can handle a larger dose. > As I said in an earlier message, he is a bit more " relaxed " and more willing > to take a nap and is still asking to use this medication. If you remember my > earlier posts, Mr. B is " afraid " to pass and does not want to " let go. " It is > hard to watch a person struggle so to " hold on. " I think this medication > will help the pain he " doesn't tell us about " and will calm him enough to be > comfortable now and let things happen as they may. > > Ever since I found this message board several months ago, I have conversed > with Mr. B about what " others " have been going through with this disease and he > still asks me how " they " are doing. We have always been open and honest about > what goes on in life and I tell him everything except the news about those > who have passed as to not get him any more depressed than natural (there's that > little white lie that is necessary). > > I have also told him about " Chip Gerber " and Mr. B commented that he was a > " brave Soul " to be able to communicate his feelings to others and because of > that he has decided to " donate " his brain for research (I am looking into the > process). We are trying to turn this nightmare into a " lesson for others " so my > Uncle will not go through this in vain. > > Mr. B has been a " giver " his whole life, helping anyone that needed a nudge > and he has been happier knowing that he is " helping " to pave the road for those > who will take this journey. It is hard for Mr. B to communicate, he is > inaudible at times and just says one word or grunts a note or two. His sentences > sound like garbling but I manage to find out what he is saying with a lot of > patience. Sometimes he manages a " clear " word or two but that is getting rare. > He is unable to do much else these days except weakly shake a visitors hand > (he is and always was a perfect gentleman)! The only thing he has left is the > hope that he is doing something " good " for others by going through this > illness. I give him that. > > Thank you so much for responding when you are so busy. When I tell Mr. B > about the " responses " he feels, even more, that he is " helping.' > > Much Peace sent to you and yours, Stevie > > Stevie in So. California > LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. > Lives in my home - 3 yrs. > DX Parkinson's 1993 > DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD > End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have > started up again. > Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, > Amitriptyline > Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the > same since > Daily BP usually 68/52 > Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. > Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain - seems to be working > > * * * * * * * * * > Stevie, > > I have been so busy these last few days, but read your message and wanted to > respond. It is amazing that your Uncle is clear enough to know that he > probably can trust this message Board quicker than the Medicinal people. I had to > smile through that. > > One of the other things I did with Mom when she reacted badly to meds, is I > gave her a smaller dose than they recommended. I would use half as much. Then > it can sometimes be tolerated. I really don't think the Medical field gets > that a small dose for most people is a huge dose for the people we need to give > meds. Even on the DVD, the MD says " Start low, and go slow. " I think he > gets it if he knows what low is to our people. > > Glad Mr. B trusts our messages. > > Donna R Quote
Guest guest Posted April 1, 2006 Report Posted April 1, 2006 Hi Stevie Your posts are always so informative and encouraging. I am relieved that Mr. B is pain free. It is also very apparent that Mr. B is a " giver " - with his caring about the 'others' on the board. You and he are lucky to have each other. And that he wants to 'donate' his brain for research is wonderful. I have a book that talks about donating your brain to research, but someone is borrowing it, but as I recall it says to contact a university and they will provide you with forms to fill out - I know Harvard has a " Brain Bank " . I'd also like to thank you for including the picture of Mr. B from his sailor days - I love old photos - he is such a handsome man. Thank you again for your posts. > > Hello Donna, > > After three doses with this new medication he is " pain free " and still doing > fine. We did start him off with a very low dose and will continue to do so > until it is visually clear that he needs more, and he can handle a larger dose. > As I said in an earlier message, he is a bit more " relaxed " and more willing > to take a nap and is still asking to use this medication. If you remember my > earlier posts, Mr. B is " afraid " to pass and does not want to " let go. " It is > hard to watch a person struggle so to " hold on. " I think this medication > will help the pain he " doesn't tell us about " and will calm him enough to be > comfortable now and let things happen as they may. > > Ever since I found this message board several months ago, I have conversed > with Mr. B about what " others " have been going through with this disease and he > still asks me how " they " are doing. We have always been open and honest about > what goes on in life and I tell him everything except the news about those > who have passed as to not get him any more depressed than natural (there's that > little white lie that is necessary). > > I have also told him about " Chip Gerber " and Mr. B commented that he was a > " brave Soul " to be able to communicate his feelings to others and because of > that he has decided to " donate " his brain for research (I am looking into the > process). We are trying to turn this nightmare into a " lesson for others " so my > Uncle will not go through this in vain. > > Mr. B has been a " giver " his whole life, helping anyone that needed a nudge > and he has been happier knowing that he is " helping " to pave the road for those > who will take this journey. It is hard for Mr. B to communicate, he is > inaudible at times and just says one word or grunts a note or two. His sentences > sound like garbling but I manage to find out what he is saying with a lot of > patience. Sometimes he manages a " clear " word or two but that is getting rare. > He is unable to do much else these days except weakly shake a visitors hand > (he is and always was a perfect gentleman)! The only thing he has left is the > hope that he is doing something " good " for others by going through this > illness. I give him that. > > Thank you so much for responding when you are so busy. When I tell Mr. B > about the " responses " he feels, even more, that he is " helping.' > > Much Peace sent to you and yours, Stevie > > Stevie in So. California > LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. > Lives in my home - 3 yrs. > DX Parkinson's 1993 > DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD > End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have > started up again. > Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, > Amitriptyline > Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the > same since > Daily BP usually 68/52 > Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. > Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain - seems to be working > > * * * * * * * * * > Stevie, > > I have been so busy these last few days, but read your message and wanted to > respond. It is amazing that your Uncle is clear enough to know that he > probably can trust this message Board quicker than the Medicinal people. I had to > smile through that. > > One of the other things I did with Mom when she reacted badly to meds, is I > gave her a smaller dose than they recommended. I would use half as much. Then > it can sometimes be tolerated. I really don't think the Medical field gets > that a small dose for most people is a huge dose for the people we need to give > meds. Even on the DVD, the MD says " Start low, and go slow. " I think he > gets it if he knows what low is to our people. > > Glad Mr. B trusts our messages. > > Donna R > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2006 Report Posted April 2, 2006 Thank you Donna. I am waiting for a return phone call from CSU/Irvine to get things in order. If things have not been " set up " I will order an autopsy myself and pay whatever the cost because I think it is important.....especially since none of his 6 other older brothers or sisters had anything like this. All of his sibs reached their 80s, except one brother who passed at 79 because of a fall, and two are still alive and well at 86 and 88 and still driving! I have already made the Mort/Funer arrangements (which I recommend to do long before the time comes!) and they are aware of the situation. That's ONE thing I don't have to worry about or deal with. I think I will contact the Alzheimer's group tomorrow too. Thank you so much for the suggestion. Have a wonderful day! Much Peace to you, Stevie * * * * * * * * * Stevie, The Alzheimers people here were willing to help me. What they said is all the paper work needed to filled out ahead of time. And there was charges related to it. Some places do it for nothing if you are involved in a study. I guess they need to do it immediately after death which is why you need the paper work filled out ahead. Donna R Quote
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2006 Report Posted April 2, 2006 Dear Donna....I wish I could have taken a picture when I gave him your hug! Sometimes, it takes so little to share a happy moment. Thank you so much. Stevie * * * * * * Stevie, Tell Mr B that Michigan Donna is sending him a special hug today. Donna R Quote
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2006 Report Posted April 2, 2006 Stevie, The Alzheimers people here were willing to help me. What they said is all the paper work needed to filled out ahead of time. And there was charges related to it. Some places do it for nothing if you are involved in a study. I guess they need to do it immediately after death which is why you need the paper work filled out ahead. Donna R Do you want to read more about Lewy Body? You can also read the Thistle, the LBD Newsletter. Just click on: http://www.lewybodydementia.org Re: Re: Quick question re: Meds Quote
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2006 Report Posted April 2, 2006 Stevie, Tell Mr B that Michigan Donna is sending him a special hug today. Donna R Do you want to read more about Lewy Body? You can also read the Thistle, the LBD Newsletter. Just click on: http://www.lewybodydementia.org Re: Quick question re: Meds Quote
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2006 Report Posted April 3, 2006 Hi Stevie Mr. B never ceases to amaze me. He is a real trouper. It is amazing to me that he can still communicate with you. And that he wants to do as this message board recommends - again amazing. I had not heard of this new medication, but if it is working great! Mr.B's mind is still so powerful. We all thought that this was " IT " over and over again and he has managed to surpass all expectations. I just love him and I don't even know him. He is so lucky to have such a loving niece. You are his angel on earth. Love to you both Dena --- juperant@... wrote: > Hello Donna, > > After three doses with this new medication he is > " pain free " and still doing > fine. We did start him off with a very low dose and > will continue to do so > until it is visually clear that he needs more, and > he can handle a larger dose. > As I said in an earlier message, he is a bit more > " relaxed " and more willing > to take a nap and is still asking to use this > medication. If you remember my > earlier posts, Mr. B is " afraid " to pass and does > not want to " let go. " It is > hard to watch a person struggle so to " hold on. " I > think this medication > will help the pain he " doesn't tell us about " and > will calm him enough to be > comfortable now and let things happen as they may. > > Ever since I found this message board several months > ago, I have conversed > with Mr. B about what " others " have been going > through with this disease and he > still asks me how " they " are doing. We have always > been open and honest about > what goes on in life and I tell him everything > except the news about those > who have passed as to not get him any more depressed > than natural (there's that > little white lie that is necessary). > > I have also told him about " Chip Gerber " and Mr. B > commented that he was a > " brave Soul " to be able to communicate his feelings > to others and because of > that he has decided to " donate " his brain for > research (I am looking into the > process). We are trying to turn this nightmare into > a " lesson for others " so my > Uncle will not go through this in vain. > > Mr. B has been a " giver " his whole life, helping > anyone that needed a nudge > and he has been happier knowing that he is " helping " > to pave the road for those > who will take this journey. It is hard for Mr. B to > communicate, he is > inaudible at times and just says one word or grunts > a note or two. His sentences > sound like garbling but I manage to find out what he > is saying with a lot of > patience. Sometimes he manages a " clear " word or > two but that is getting rare. > He is unable to do much else these days except > weakly shake a visitors hand > (he is and always was a perfect gentleman)! The > only thing he has left is the > hope that he is doing something " good " for others by > going through this > illness. I give him that. > > Thank you so much for responding when you are so > busy. When I tell Mr. B > about the " responses " he feels, even more, that he > is " helping.' > > Much Peace sent to you and yours, Stevie > > Stevie in So. California > LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. > Lives in my home - 3 yrs. > DX Parkinson's 1993 > DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD > End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have > subsided) ...but have > started up again. > Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, > Roxinal, Aciphex, > Amitriptyline > Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan > '06), hasn't been the > same since > Daily BP usually 68/52 > Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of > breath. > Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain - seems to be > working > > * * * * * * * * * > Stevie, > > I have been so busy these last few days, but read > your message and wanted to > respond. It is amazing that your Uncle is clear > enough to know that he > probably can trust this message Board quicker than > the Medicinal people. I had to > smile through that. > > One of the other things I did with Mom when she > reacted badly to meds, is I > gave her a smaller dose than they recommended. I > would use half as much. Then > it can sometimes be tolerated. I really don't think > the Medical field gets > that a small dose for most people is a huge dose for > the people we need to give > meds. Even on the DVD, the MD says " Start low, and > go slow. " I think he > gets it if he knows what low is to our people. > > Glad Mr. B trusts our messages. > > Donna R > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote
Guest guest Posted April 4, 2006 Report Posted April 4, 2006 Hello Dena, My hope is that this new medication will CONTINUE to work and that it won't start working adversely on him. He seems to be very " content " now and that is making our days much easier to cope with. Yes, Mr. B's mind is still so powerful underneath it all! He has always believed in the " mind over matter " logic and continues to do so and amaze the Hospice people! Sometimes it seems that everyone around him is " failing " and he is getting better! He had stage 4 bed sores and they are healed! An almost unbelievable thing at this stage of Hospice. He just says, " Of course they are healed, " and then gives that famous Mr. B smile....like he knows something you don't know. It was almost over for ME until I stopped trying to " figure this disease out " and started taking care of myself. We take each day as it comes, enjoying the lucid times, laughing about the mistakes, and giggling over the fact that he still doesn't think he can get into that convertible! For some reason he can't get himself to go in a car. Hasn't been in one since the January ambulance ride home from the NH. (?) Thank you so much for your kind words and I will tell him that he has another " girlfriend " on the computer. LOL Much Love, prayers and wonderful Peace sent to you, Stevie Stevie in So. California LO - Mr. B (Uncle) 82 yrs. Lives in my home - 3 yrs. DX Parkinson's 1993 DX LBD 2003 - probably has PDD End stage meds: Hytrin, E.S Tylenol (Hallies have subsided) ...but have started up again. Was on: Sinemet, Seroguel, Elavil, Lasix, Hytrin, Roxinal, Aciphex, Amitriptyline Was given Ativan and Seroquel in NH for 5 days (Jan '06), hasn't been the same since Daily BP usually 68/52 Severe shoulder pain, hip pain, and shortness of breath. Now taking Trilisate Liquid for pain - seems to be working * * * * * * * Hi Stevie Mr. B never ceases to amaze me. He is a real trouper. It is amazing to me that he can still communicate with you. And that he wants to do as this message board recommends - again amazing. I had not heard of this new medication, but if it is working great! Mr.B's mind is still so powerful. We all thought that this was " IT " over and over again and he has managed to surpass all expectations. I just love him and I don't even know him. He is so lucky to have such a loving niece. You are his angel on earth. Love to you both Dena Quote
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