Re: Reason to leave Group

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/14/2006 3:58:49 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

g_boot32@... writes:

At this moment,I am awaiting the arrival of my daughter .She is bringing my

grandson home from the hospital. I am needing support to be able to act in

the needed way,to do and say the right things. I know how much trouble I am,and

I know my daughter cannot take much more and needs my support. My grandson

is twenty-one years of age.My most recent heart attack has me slowed down with

thought and memory. I know this is the group to understand and help each of

us. I will think of you tonight and hope you get what you need.

G

well you cant help the damage that heart attacks do to your memory believe

me i sure know the feeling..and I think the best support you can be to your

family is to love them...is your grandson very ill? we will be here for you

however we can help

God bless and keep you

Rose

[Guest guest]

Rose

My grand son will recover. He purposely cut his wrists. There will be a

" family intervention " in this house in the next two days. The hardest part (so

far) is over. I know how difficult it was for him to see me, knowing I was

aware of what he had done. My daughter and grand son have lived with me,or next

door to me all of their lives.My grand son got his own apartment (within six

miles) about eight months ago. He is a very good tile setter by day,and a

talented musician twenty-four-seven. I am not even going to pretend to

understand all that is happening. I do know I need to be a help and not a

problem. My son in law is a good man and step father and has been in our lives

for over ten years. My daughter is trying to be everything for everybody. A

family trait is the difficulty to admit pain,physical or emotional.It is " hard

to get by,just upon a smile " .<from a song> and the unsuccessful way I tried to

live my life. I have been advised that I must be strong , direct,and

very honest during and after the intervention. I want to do everything I

can,the best I can. Nothing is more important to me and I have never been more

frightened.Thank you for any and all good thoughts .

G

starlyin@... wrote:

In a message dated 6/14/2006 3:58:49 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

g_boot32@... writes:

At this moment,I am awaiting the arrival of my daughter .She is bringing my

grandson home from the hospital. I am needing support to be able to act in

the needed way,to do and say the right things. I know how much trouble I am,and

I know my daughter cannot take much more and needs my support. My grandson

is twenty-one years of age.My most recent heart attack has me slowed down with

thought and memory. I know this is the group to understand and help each of

us. I will think of you tonight and hope you get what you need.

G

well you cant help the damage that heart attacks do to your memory believe

me i sure know the feeling..and I think the best support you can be to your

family is to love them...is your grandson very ill? we will be here for you

however we can help

God bless and keep you

Rose