PS Leigh

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Donna R

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Back from black to blue

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> Hello to you all. It has been a few months since I posted anything

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> here, but have been reading. There are so many new people!

> I have spent the last several months preparing my mom's house for

> sale, and it was supposed to close on Friday 12/31 but of course did

> not. Nothing has gone smoothly. I feel like I have been in a black

> funk for the whole of 2005 and while I am not still in that

> black " zone " I am feeling really blue. I keep waiting for this whole

> process with the house to BE DONE, and it just keeps hanging on, and

> on, and on. It dragged into the winter, and I had wanted to be done

> by fall...and here I sit, paying mymother's bills, organizing her

> papers, finalizing what I can, and I feel so sad, and tired and

> bummed out.The realtor we hired has lied to us on several

occassions,

> the surveyor " can't find the property lot pins " and the closing

agent

> is out sick...I have worked so hard on doing this well, and so much

> has been out of my control. Mom is frail, and understands nothing

> about reality, she still cannot walk since June, and I am

frustrated.

> OKAY< venting, i know. But I didn't expect to feel bad when the

house

> sold, I expected to feel sad to see it go, and relieved that it was

> done. SO far, no relief. It was emotional to walk thru a house that

> had been so full of things, and to see it empty,it was hard to

> believe that I had actually accomplished the clean out, the

auctions,

> the movers, the work of it all. Where is the peace in being done???

> Leigh

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