Re: Just for the record!!! Blanco Inaccurate comments clarification: ANDREA

[Guest guest]

I understand you are a really great researcher mom. You do not have

the right to attack a fellow mom. You have no idea what she as a mom

goes through. You especially should not mention anything about her

ability to recover her children or other children. You have no idea

how hard she as a mom has worked. I take big big offence at your

comments in personally attacking this mom or any other mom. She has a

right not to like a physician. I do not agree with doctor bashing and

Tami has made it clear that is not allowed. But to Mom bash on this

list is even more unacceptable because it is so very very personal.

We are trying to heal our babies and to make comments such as these

is so very very hurtful. I realize you want to defend a physician you

have respect for and I hear your words but to criticize and bash

another mom who is a great researcher in her own right that is just

heart breaking to me. I am sorry but I feel you owe this mom an

apology because you have verbally assaulted her and in a public

forum. I write this on this forum publically only because I want

others to know that fellow mom bashing is unacceptable.

Kristie

mommy to Aidan age 4

[Guest guest]

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Dear Kristie:

Please don't keep this thing going by asking for an apology. Let's

all agree to disagree. These forum battles that happen occasionally

in all forums, are very uncomfortable for all involved. I just don't

see anyone benefitting from keeping this going. Both Tami and Kathy

have many friends who are now entering the battle in support. Well,

I think that's great to have support, but I really feel we should end

this thing as soon as possible and move on. I know its embarrassing

and very uncomfortable emotionally (I have had a couple of battles

myself), but I learned my mental happiness is more important than

battling. Its ok to have different beliefs. Let us all go on with

our own beliefs and share in a way that is helpful. Think of all the

parents who come to these forums. They don't want to see this; nor

sift through this to get to helpful information. I want to apologize

to everyone for everyone. We are wasting valuable time on something

that can't possibly go anywhere. Some battles are actually helpful

for learning, but I just don't see that here. With all due respect,

everyone on both sides of the battle is putting in efforts to help

children, now lets do it in a way that everyone benefits, by sharing

in a helpful manner. Our kids need us. We will get much more

accomplished by working together than by working against each other.

Love and success to all,

Heidi N

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> I understand you are a really great researcher mom. You do not have

> the right to attack a fellow mom. You have no idea what she as a

mom

> goes through. You especially should not mention anything about her

> ability to recover her children or other children. You have no idea

> how hard she as a mom has worked. I take big big offence at your

> comments in personally attacking this mom or any other mom. She has

a

> right not to like a physician. I do not agree with doctor bashing

and

> Tami has made it clear that is not allowed. But to Mom bash on this

> list is even more unacceptable because it is so very very personal.

> We are trying to heal our babies and to make comments such as these

> is so very very hurtful. I realize you want to defend a physician

you

> have respect for and I hear your words but to criticize and bash

> another mom who is a great researcher in her own right that is just

> heart breaking to me. I am sorry but I feel you owe this mom an

> apology because you have verbally assaulted her and in a public

> forum. I write this on this forum publically only because I want

> others to know that fellow mom bashing is unacceptable.

>

> Kristie

> mommy to Aidan age 4

>

[Guest guest]

Kristi,

I'm really sorry if I disappoint you, but I stand for every word I

said.

I feel very sad for what Kathy is going thru, but that does not give

her the right to talk bad about Dr. Cowden, MD or anyone she doesn't

know or has prove to sustain her words, he is not just the doctor

that helped me to recover my children, but a friend of mine.

I didn't bash her at all as the person she may be, but towards her

attitude.

She is the one that should reflexsionate about what she has said and

apologize in public to what she said about Dr. Cowden.

I have also gone thru very difficult times and pain even so I keep

being positive, fighting for what its right and helping others.

We as mothers and sometimes as moderators of yahoo groups have the

responsibility to make sober comments, especially when we are

talking about people that has a career and reputation to protect;

our disgraces cannot and should not be use as pretexts to do

irresponsible statements.

I hope you can understand my point of view as well and I repeat I am

not attacking her as a person or mother, but her attitude.

I may have sound to aggressive but I am a human and injustice really

inflates me.

.

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>

> I understand you are a really great researcher mom. You do not

have

> the right to attack a fellow mom. You have no idea what she as a

mom

> goes through. You especially should not mention anything about

her

> ability to recover her children or other children. You have no

idea

> how hard she as a mom has worked. I take big big offence at your

> comments in personally attacking this mom or any other mom. She

has a

> right not to like a physician. I do not agree with doctor bashing

and

> Tami has made it clear that is not allowed. But to Mom bash on

this

> list is even more unacceptable because it is so very very

personal.

> We are trying to heal our babies and to make comments such as

these

> is so very very hurtful. I realize you want to defend a physician

you

> have respect for and I hear your words but to criticize and bash

> another mom who is a great researcher in her own right that is

just

> heart breaking to me. I am sorry but I feel you owe this mom an

> apology because you have verbally assaulted her and in a public

> forum. I write this on this forum publically only because I want

> others to know that fellow mom bashing is unacceptable.

>

> Kristie

> mommy to Aidan age 4

>