Guest guest Posted October 13, 2008 Report Share Posted October 13, 2008 I found this good article online. Thought I should share it with you all... ------------------ From timber wolves, to chameleons, to domesticated cats, it seems that most animals instinctively fear loud noises. Humans are no different. There's an obvious evolutionary reason for this. Animals' senses are attuned to that which is loud and bright. Indeed, that very statement is redundant: stimuli that are " loud " and " bright " are just those stimuli that overload our senses. In nature, a sudden overloading of the senses typically signifies some threat to our lives. Think of the elephant trumpeting in warning before charging to attack; or of a heavy, thousand-year-old tree making a thunderous sound as it falls to the ground, crushing everything beneath. However, in some people, that instinctive reaction to loud sudden sounds can turn into a full-scale phobia. This can become a problem. Do you find yourself entering an almost-panic every time you see someone about to pop a balloon? If so, you might wonder if there was a way to just stop fear. No one enjoys having to live in terror of ordinary things. The Psychology Of Fear Most people who have a phobia of loud sounds are as afraid of the suddenness and unpredictability of the noise, as they are of its loudness. There's something about being surprised that is evolutionary programmed to set our hearts racing. A classical example of this is when children (or adults) sneak up behind one another and say, " Boo!. " No one likes being caught off-guard. Repeatedly being startled like this inc childhood, especially by persons of malicious intent (e.g. by bullies at school) can lead to a phobia developing. One Fear Leads To Another After being startled like this repeatedly, a child may develop a tendency to permanently cringe at the slightest sound. This can lead to a host of other social problems: extreme shyness, social anxiety, an inability to take initiative in groups, low self-esteem, dread of change, and dread of risk-taking. In extreme cases, a fear of sudden, startling sounds can make people unable to sleep. Sufferers of extreme noise phobia have been known lie awake at night, dreading and anticipating every car driving by the window, every maddening, hourly performance of the neighbor's cuckoo clock. Stop Fear Of Noise With NLP Fortunately, if you suffer from severe noise phobias, there are techniques to re-train your mind to think differently. Using the discipline of NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), you can train your mind to calm down and relax, and to stop anticipating sudden noise. You probably already know, rationally, that there's nothing inherently scary about loud sounds. With a combination of NLP and hypnotherapy techniques, you can finally get your seemingly- intractable, unconscious mind to internalize this knowledge. Stop Repetitive Thinking Most severe phobias, including this one, take the form of one constantly-repeating thought loop (e.g. " I'm about to hear a terrible, loud noise, it's going to be scary " ). That's why being afraid is ultimately so boring: who likes thinking the same thought all the time, against one's own will? That's why these phobias respond so well to NLP. The techniques of NLP teach you to consciously recognize these repetitive thoughts, and replace them with better thoughts. Chances are that, after a few sessions of NLP and hypnotherapy, you'll never fear loud noises again. J J Seymour is a writer with Self Help Recordings. Hypnotherapy and NLP can be very useful tool to handle Fear Loud Noises - one good source of experienced hypnotherapists and NLP practitioners is Just Be Well. This organization has experienced professionals throughout the UK in London, Birmingham, Bristol, Buckinghamshire, East Anglia, Leeds, Manchester, Newcastle, Surrey, Sussex and Scotland. You will also find links to related practitioners for treatment of fear of loud noises in Vancouver and Toronto, Canada, for Dublin, Ireland, and for Sydney, Melbourne and Perth in Australia. If you are unable to visit a practitioner in person you may well benefit from a good and guaranteed self hypnosis recording such as Stop Fear, by experienced hypnotherapist Duncan McColl. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=J_J_Seymour Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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