Don't know what to do.

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Hi , I am just brand new as of yesterday and I signed up to help get

some answers with and for my daughter. I can add a comment to this

question about hiding and running. My daughter confided in me that she

was running and hiding in the bathroom at her Dad's (we are divorced)

when this all began a year or so ago. She would stay there as long as

possible until the mealtime eating frenzy was over and she could

return then and eat her meal in peace and quiet with no one around.

She runs into her room at our house when it the plates come out or the

forks or spoons. It has progressively worsened in our house and at her

dad's. She spends the majority of her time with me and we find that

there are a lot of trigger's specifically with me personally than with

anyone else in the family and that hurts because I am not doing any of

it on purpose. It breaks my heart to hurt my little girl and make her

run a way from me because she hates the sounds I make when I don't

even hear them myself. I chew with my mouth closed but she can hear me

swallow. I don't know what to do except not eat.

> I actually start feeling sick in my stomach when it first

starts until

> I realize what the noise is like is it a passing car, then I feel

relief.

> If it is my neighbor's stereo I get feeling more sick.

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> To: Soundsensitivity

> From: Oregon7@...

> Date: Fri, 25 Apr 2008 14:39:31 +0000

> Subject: Re: Stress!!!

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> Yes, with experience we can know what we are in for when these

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> actions begin to happen or someone that we KNOW who is going to make

> trigger sounds, comes near!

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> Tension!

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> Where do you feel it first, I am curious?

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> When they approach or take out the gum package, where do you sense the

> FIRST signs of the tension-stress?

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> I have this image of you hiding in that church bathroom........what a

> picture! Do the rest of you hide somewhere? Maybe we can share some

> stories of unusual ways you have tried to escape?

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> Dr.

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