Guest guest Posted March 28, 2009 Report Share Posted March 28, 2009 Hello everyone! Thanks goodness it's the weekend, right? Anyways, I know it's a friday night so I'm not sure who's on, but I had to write bc/I'm so NERVOUS and ANXIOUS about 's first cast. We leave Monday morning for SLC and she'll be casted Tuesday. It's just bc/it's the unexpected that freaks me out. I worry, will she be okay, will she be in pain, how do you pick them up with the cast on, will she still be the happy little girl she's been, how do I cuddle with her anymore??? I know this is the best thing for her and it has to be done. There is no doubt in my mind about that. It's just going to be a change, a big one, but that's what I have you guys for....for support. I just hope I have everything I need. I think I'm ready. I have bigger clothes, diapers, poise pads which by the way how do I put them on for a girl, any suggestions? We aren't bringing a car seat since we aren't renting a car and the Shriner's shuttle van has a car seat in it. We're trying not to check baggage since and so far we're good. My husband and I will both carry on a bag. Mine will have 's clothes, diapers, food and formula. I just hope they let me on with it. Well, I think that's all for now. I just had to write to ease my mind and nerves. Thanks so much to all of you for your support thus far. I know after this first cast and things get adjusted the second won't seem so bad. Hope everyone enjoys their weekend. (mother to - 9 months old - 1st cast will be at SLC on 3/31/09) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2009 Report Share Posted March 28, 2009 Hi , She won't be in pain, don't worry. I think the kids have sore muscles on the first day, after they come out of the casting...this is only my gut instinct and personal experience...but infant tylenol and maybe infant motrin seem to help a great deal. Trust that there is no discomfort for them during casting, it's just upsetting right after they wake up from it. This is the norm, we hear. For us, that was the hardest part, because we didn't have language to comfort him at 19 months. It really got so much better in just a few hours. To be clear, our baby wasn't even crying that whole time, at all, just a bit on and off- he ate special food (they have vanilla pudding), we read books, etc...the staff was so nice. It was just a long day, and emotional at the end- for the parents- the baby fell asleep by 7:30. Oh, I cuddle with my baby all the time!!! It's a bummer that he has to wear it, but it definitely does not stop happy cuddling!!! Our baby is as happy as EVER, for sure. Just put the poise pads in the diaper like a pantyliner. Remember, the so-true mantra is...it's much harder on the parents. will do GREAT and never remember even a moment of discomfort. XOXO- Heidi Subject: nervous about 1st castTo: infantile_scoliosis Date: Friday, March 27, 2009, 5:30 PM Hello everyone! Thanks goodness it's the weekend, right? Anyways, I know it's a friday night so I'm not sure who's on, but I had to write bc/I'm so NERVOUS and ANXIOUS about 's first cast. We leave Monday morning for SLC and she'll be casted Tuesday. It's just bc/it's the unexpected that freaks me out. I worry, will she be okay, will she be in pain, how do you pick them up with the cast on, will she still be the happy little girl she's been, how do I cuddle with her anymore??? I know this is the best thing for her and it has to be done. There is no doubt in my mind about that. It's just going to be a change, a big one, but that's what I have you guys for....for support. I just hope I have everything I need. I think I'm ready. I have bigger clothes, diapers, poise pads which by the way how do I put them on for a girl, any suggestions? We aren't bringing a car seat since we aren't renting a car and the Shriner's shuttle van has a car seat in it. We're trying not to check baggage since and so far we're good. My husband and I will both carry on a bag. Mine will have 's clothes, diapers, food and formula. I just hope they let me on with it. Well, I think that's all for now. I just had to write to ease my mind and nerves. Thanks so much to all of you for your support thus far. I know after this first cast and things get adjusted the second won't seem so bad. Hope everyone enjoys their weekend. (mother to - 9 months old - 1st cast will be at SLC on 3/31/09) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2009 Report Share Posted March 28, 2009 Hi ! I have to tell you that less than a week ago I was in the same position as you. Our son Max is 18 months old and got his first cast this past Wednesday! I had the exact same fears as you and I am not going to lie, it will be a very long day but she will not be in pain. When she comes out of the OR and they are padding her cast she will cry but it will be because of the anesthesia and not because she is hurting. I was so worried about the snuggling aspect but ya know what I have found new ways to cuddle with him already and he is actually more cuddly with me now than he was before! I will admit that it is a HUGE adjustment and your heart will break to watch them try and make modifications but that is what we are here for. I have learnt very quickly that any insecurites I have are put to rest by simply writing an email or picking up the phone! I will also admit that you will have a pity party for yourself for a few days and once you have seen what she is going through you will wonder if you made the right decision, but just keep telling yourself that you have and it will get better. Max has had his cast on for less than three whole days and today he was actually getting to his knees and back up again by holding on to something. If you need anything feel free to email me and know that we are all here for you and that what you are feeling is normal. Good luck! Cara > > Hello everyone! Thanks goodness it's the weekend, right? Anyways, I know it's a friday night so I'm not sure who's on, but I had to write bc/I'm so NERVOUS and ANXIOUS about 's first cast. We leave Monday morning for SLC and she'll be casted Tuesday. It's just bc/it's the unexpected that freaks me out. I worry, will she be okay, will she be in pain, how do you pick them up with the cast on, will she still be the happy little girl she's been, how do I cuddle with her anymore??? I know this is the best thing for her and it has to be done. There is no doubt in my mind about that. It's just going to be a change, a big one, but that's what I have you guys for....for support. I just hope I have everything I need. I think I'm ready. I have bigger clothes, diapers, poise pads which by the way how do I put them on for a girl, any suggestions? We aren't bringing a car seat since we aren't renting a car and the Shriner's shuttle van > has a car seat in it. We're trying not to check baggage since and so far we're good. My husband and I will both carry on a bag. Mine will have 's clothes, diapers, food and formula. I just hope they let me on with it. Well, I think that's all for now. I just had to write to ease my mind and nerves. Thanks so much to all of you for your support thus far. I know after this first cast and things get adjusted the second won't seem so bad. Hope everyone enjoys their weekend. > > (mother to - 9 months old - 1st cast will be at SLC on 3/31/09) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 28, 2009 Report Share Posted March 28, 2009 Hi , Ironically, today is Noelle's one year anniversary in cast as your posting about your baby's first one.... I remember it like it was yesterday, of course.... It seem as though you have all your supplies on hand.... Don't forget a few fave toys and ask them for some extra moleskin at the hospital when you are done casting. Noelle wet her cast the first day and I was glad they gave me some extra because I didn't know to bring any. Yes, you will be able to snuggle and hold her and pick her up as you normally would.... It will feel different at first and she will be much heavier to you at first, but you will get through it and you will adjust.... I have always told everyone the first 2 weeks were emotional hell for me. The first 2 days were toughest on her, but by day 3 she had the hang of it and within 2 weeks she was a pro..... Takes us parents longer! LOL Change her often initially after the casting due to the IV liquids. Noelle was never in any pain and we never gave her any Tylenol or Motrin for discomfort. When she was a back-sleeper, we put the Poise pad in just like a maxi, but positioned it a little more towards the back. They work great..... We would get leaks here and there, but they truly saved us! Good luck and I'll check my post tomorrow again if you need anything... E-mail me privately and I'll give you my number if you need to talk. The vest, as promised will be out soon.... I have not forgotten! Hugs, Steph Subject: nervous about 1st castTo: infantile_scoliosis Date: Saturday, March 28, 2009, 12:30 AM Hello everyone! Thanks goodness it's the weekend, right? Anyways, I know it's a friday night so I'm not sure who's on, but I had to write bc/I'm so NERVOUS and ANXIOUS about 's first cast. We leave Monday morning for SLC and she'll be casted Tuesday. It's just bc/it's the unexpected that freaks me out. I worry, will she be okay, will she be in pain, how do you pick them up with the cast on, will she still be the happy little girl she's been, how do I cuddle with her anymore??? I know this is the best thing for her and it has to be done. There is no doubt in my mind about that. It's just going to be a change, a big one, but that's what I have you guys for....for support. I just hope I have everything I need. I think I'm ready. I have bigger clothes, diapers, poise pads which by the way how do I put them on for a girl, any suggestions? We aren't bringing a car seat since we aren't renting a car and the Shriner's shuttle van has a car seat in it. We're trying not to check baggage since and so far we're good. My husband and I will both carry on a bag. Mine will have 's clothes, diapers, food and formula. I just hope they let me on with it. Well, I think that's all for now. I just had to write to ease my mind and nerves. Thanks so much to all of you for your support thus far. I know after this first cast and things get adjusted the second won't seem so bad. Hope everyone enjoys their weekend. (mother to - 9 months old - 1st cast will be at SLC on 3/31/09) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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