Rosie

[Guest guest]

I did the low cut top, looking hot thing before. He always used to say

I was the only person in Ausralia he could rely on as his family are

all in Samoa. He knew it and so did I, I was there for his bidding.

Therefore, the fact I did NOT rush to the hospital when he was hurt

and asking me to come must have been one hell of a wake up. There are

more than the obvious ways to cook a goose, and also, besides all

that, I feel good I didn't go. At first I felt lousy, almost did go,

stopped myself, felt mean, then said to me, no way girl, think of the

nasty things not the good. Also, where was his man/woman hulk of

a 'friend' (his description-not mine) then, why me when he is needy

but not when it's fun time? No, it's over. Maree

[Guest guest]

As you said Maree, it's over. Sometimes it's best to cut ties all

together and move on. This is what I would rather do with my ex, but

because we have our kids in common, and he loves his children and

still wants to be a part of their lives which is fine by me, we have

no choice but to talk to or bump into each other from time to time.

But out of respect for his children (I am after all the mother of his

children), he should have taken it upon himself to show some concern

for my wellbeing. He knows that I don't have anyone else who would be

in a position to help me, so if I'm off my feet, the kids and the

whole household feel it.

He should have been here for me today no questions asked - but then

again am I to expect anything more from the same man who deserted me 2

weeks after my father died?

I suppose in the end we all need to do what feels right for ourselves,

and if you feel that he has used you enough, and his calling you to go

visit is just another one of his attempts to use you, then maybe it is

about time he did get that wake up call.

Honestly, we're just too good for our own good sometimes. Luv Rose.

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> I did the low cut top, looking hot thing before. He always used to

say

> I was the only person in Ausralia he could rely on as his family are

> all in Samoa. He knew it and so did I, I was there for his bidding.

> Therefore, the fact I did NOT rush to the hospital when he was hurt

> and asking me to come must have been one hell of a wake up. There

are

> more than the obvious ways to cook a goose, and also, besides all

> that, I feel good I didn't go. At first I felt lousy, almost did go,

> stopped myself, felt mean, then said to me, no way girl, think of

the

> nasty things not the good. Also, where was his man/woman hulk of

> a 'friend' (his description-not mine) then, why me when he is needy

> but not when it's fun time? No, it's over. Maree

>