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dear lovethework when i read this post .. The thought came to me i bet

MAria took out my name and put in her name.. BEcause what could you

find wrong with 's posts ??? and i know she is the moderator.

While I tend to write off topic posts

Is that my paranoia or what?

I vote that you delete tamis posts if they hurt you so much and cause

you stress. ARE you in others business , arguing with reality , or

playing God.?? can you know Tamis posts dont help someone. ?

can you know they wont help you to accept another viewpoint? OR give

you foder for the work? foder is that a word? I hope so you know

something to do the work on.

love, roslyn

-- In Loving-what-is , " lovetheworkofbk "

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> > Dear love,

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> > I am having a hard time deciding who is more funny, Tami or you.

> >

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> > MY picture of this group is a meadow, whilst the members are

> > flowers. Now, one member is a butterfly, and sometimes it joins us.

> >

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> I find nothing funny about the fact that participation of

> many members of this group i.e. , Elena, Brigitte, myself

> etc. has substantially dropped since the advent of the Tami and

> show.

> Now I am sure that we could all wrap ourselves in a cosy little

> bubble of self-inquiry and say that Tami and can do whatever

> they like because my thinking is really the problem. We could all

> run around making bliss-ninny statements that this group is a meadow

> and the members are flowers.

> I prefer a path of social action based on Inquiry. If I have any

> stressful thoughts about Tami or I can bring them to inquiry

> and find peace. From that state of peace I can then kindly remind

> Tami and that their current behaviour needs to be adjusted to

> be more harmonious with others in the group. This is unconditional

> love in action.

> you remind me so much of my second brother, who stubbornly

> insists that because he loves his three children so much he just

> can't discipline them. To him they are like flowers in a meadow free

> to do whatever they want. After ten years of this what do we have?

> Three children from hell, who he can't take to a restaurant because

> they cause so much trouble. Children who are so badly behaved that

> no one wants them in their homes for fear of the damage they will

> do. My brother thinks he loves unconditionally, from my perspective

> I don't see any love just fear.

> So I am sure that you will find this post amusing to. You

> use laughter to defend your confused beliefs, and so you should

> until you don't.

>

> Have a beautiful day

>

>

> " Thoughts about your wants and needs can be very bossy. If you

> believe them, you feel you have to do what they say—you have to get

> people's love and approval. There is another way to respond to a

> thought, and that is to question it. How can you question your wants

> and needs? How can you meet your thoughts without believing them?

> I meet my thoughts the way I would meet my husband or my children:

> with understanding. " Byron

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