Re: Laughter

[Guest guest]

> I am not very good at explaining myself in English it seems to me. I

> don´t have all the words, I may use them in the wrong way. Yes, I

> know, there is no wrong way, but I am not sure I write what I intend

> to say... And I don´t understand everything others say, because I

> actually don´t know the meaning of some of the words and sometimes I

> can´t even find them in my dictonary. That this is happening is

> great. It makes me realize that I don´t like to be missunderstood.

> Oh, sweet frustration of not being understood and wanting it...

> Sigh...I give up! People seem to missunderstand me all day long, and

> especially here it seems to me, and right now I don´t even care! I

> say to someone that I love them, and they answer what the hell do

> you mean with that? I don´t believe you, you are a big lier! I want

> them to understand that I just was loving, and had no other

> intension, but it is like talking to a wall. I just give up, here

> and now. Making you understand is hopeless. Understand what you want

> or don´t, I will do the same! We don´t understand eachother and what

> is the worst that can happen? We wont understand eachother. Well

> that is already happening! I don´t make any sence. I love it. You

> don´t make any sence either sometimes and we don´t have to. Love it!

> Thank you everyone for missunderstanding me, that was the most

> loving thing you could have done right now! Or maybe I should say

> thank you God for giving me the thought of being missunderstood so I

> can get one step closer to my freedom.

>

> Love,

>

Dear ,

When someone is saying that they don't understand you...what is the

thought that they are bringing up inside of you? is a liar?

is misunderstood?

By the way, I understood you very well.

love

nne

[Guest guest]

>

> Dear ,

>

> When someone is saying that they don't understand you...what is the

> thought that they are bringing up inside of you? is a liar?

> is misunderstood?

>

> By the way, I understood you very well.

>

> love

> nne

Dear nne, thank you for the questions! I am not really sure

what thought it is that brings me sadness in this. I will have to

look at this.

When someone says I don´t make sence and they don´t understand me it

means that....

I am nuts

I am not as good as they are

they don´t like me as much as other people who make sence

they think that I am unintelligent

they don´t want to speak with me anymore

they think that I am a lier

they don´t care to listen to me anymore

I have to change

I am bad at expressing myself, especially in foreign languages

Very stressful thoughts to have! Could you or anyone else please

help me to go further with this?

Love,

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

For me, the problem is that when I have these thoughts myself (I am a

liar, I am nuts) and then to hear someone say it gets me all defensive

or upset.

Even if they don't actually SAY IT, but imply it, I think they are

saying it (since mind thinks its a mindreader too).

So, I have this thought myself that I am not good at expressing

myself, especially in foreign languages....I can do The Work on that

thought first. I think this thought is truer for me, , since I

don't know a foreign language.

I think you communicate your feelings very well especially in a

foreign language...your spelling is better than my teenage sons...I am

impressed!!!!

All the thoughts you listed...Is it true? Ask yourself...

love,

nne

> Dear nne, thank you for the questions! I am not really sure

> what thought it is that brings me sadness in this. I will have to

> look at this.

> When someone says I don´t make sence and they don´t understand me it

> means that....

>

> I am nuts

>

> I am not as good as they are

>

> they don´t like me as much as other people who make sence

>

> they think that I am unintelligent

>

> they don´t want to speak with me anymore

>

> they think that I am a lier

>

> they don´t care to listen to me anymore

>

> I have to change

>

> I am bad at expressing myself, especially in foreign languages

>

> Very stressful thoughts to have! Could you or anyone else please

> help me to go further with this?

>

> Love,

[Guest guest]

Thank you nne, I will do the work on my thoughts, and see what

comes up.

Love,

> Dear ,

>

> For me, the problem is that when I have these thoughts myself (I

am a

> liar, I am nuts) and then to hear someone say it gets me all

defensive

> or upset.

>

> Even if they don't actually SAY IT, but imply it, I think they are

> saying it (since mind thinks its a mindreader too).

>

> So, I have this thought myself that I am not good at expressing

> myself, especially in foreign languages....I can do The Work on

that

> thought first. I think this thought is truer for me, , since I

> don't know a foreign language.

>

> I think you communicate your feelings very well especially in a

> foreign language...your spelling is better than my teenage

sons...I am

> impressed!!!!

>

> All the thoughts you listed...Is it true? Ask yourself...

>

> love,

> nne

>

> > Dear nne, thank you for the questions! I am not really

sure

> > what thought it is that brings me sadness in this. I will have

to

> > look at this.

> > When someone says I don´t make sence and they don´t understand

me it

> > means that....

> >

> > I am nuts

> >

> > I am not as good as they are

> >

> > they don´t like me as much as other people who make sence

> >

> > they think that I am unintelligent

> >

> > they don´t want to speak with me anymore

> >

> > they think that I am a lier

> >

> > they don´t care to listen to me anymore

> >

> > I have to change

> >

> > I am bad at expressing myself, especially in foreign languages

> >

> > Very stressful thoughts to have! Could you or anyone else please

> > help me to go further with this?

> >

> > Love,