Guest guest Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 > Bonjour! My name is Liz and I'm a new member to this group. Welcome! > A good friend of mine suggested that I join it to get help > and feedback on some personal issues I've been having since my > boyfriend (the love of my life) broke up with me. I'm not really sure > where to start, but I just thought I'd open the line of > communication. Are you familiar with " the work " ? Judge your friend, be petty while you do that. Write it down. Then ask the four questions and turn it around! I usually don't have to know where to start, the first thought that comes up about someone is good. Any thought will do. And if there seem to be just too many, I take the most blaming one, and if I can neither find a judgement, nor how to blame him, I look up my list of suggestions for him that I have in my mind, for how he could improve *my* life. > Thanks! > > Always, > Liz Love, ___________________________________________________________ Gesendet von Yahoo! Mail - Jetzt mit 100MB Speicher kostenlos - Hier anmelden: http://mail.yahoo.de Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 Hi Liz, You may want to try the four questions on " He is the love of my life. " Regards, Debra > > > Bonjour! My name is Liz and I'm a new member to this group. A good > friend of mine suggested that I join it to get help and feedback on > some personal issues I've been having since my boyfriend (the love of > my life) broke up with me. I'm not really sure where to start, but I > just thought I'd open the line of communication. > > Thanks! > > Always, > Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2004 Report Share Posted November 30, 2004 Hi Liz!! I agree with debra, how about starting by applying the 4 questions and the turnaround to: " He is the love of my life. " Welcome to our family. Blessings, Steve D. > > > Bonjour! My name is Liz and I'm a new member to this group. A good > friend of mine suggested that I join it to get help and feedback on > some personal issues I've been having since my boyfriend (the love of > my life) broke up with me. I'm not really sure where to start, but I > just thought I'd open the line of communication. > > Thanks! > > Always, > Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 1, 2004 Report Share Posted December 1, 2004 Hi Liz, In my experience I need only inquire on my STRESSFUL stories. For me the story that your boyfriend is the love of your life, sounds pretty nice and I would not inquire into that. Now stories like: " My boyfriend should not have broken up with me. " " I need my boyfriend to be happy. " Those stories for me would be quite stressful and worthwhile bringing to inquiry. When you have been doing the Work for awhile the most stressful story of all is " I " or " I am " because it separates you from what is. No need to go there yet unless you really want to, undoing your boyfriend mythology should be enough fun for now " Sanity doesn't suffer, ever . . . ever! Sanity doesn't suffer, ever, ever! Isn't that lovely? " Byron > > > Bonjour! My name is Liz and I'm a new member to this group. A good > friend of mine suggested that I join it to get help and feedback on > some personal issues I've been having since my boyfriend (the love of > my life) broke up with me. I'm not really sure where to start, but I > just thought I'd open the line of communication. > > Thanks! > > Always, > Liz Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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