Guest guest Posted April 25, 2004 Report Share Posted April 25, 2004 Fret for a bit then hire a lawyer. Ric Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2004 Report Share Posted April 25, 2004 > I think I need a little help. My situation is this: my husband is > divorcing me and trying to cut off support money. I am disabled and > have three medically challenged kids. I worry constantly about the > money situation, and I have done the inquiry, and of course I realize > that I would be a lot more serene without the thought " Ex is going to > cut off our money. " However, I am stuck on the turnaround. Here's > what I came up with: > > 1. I am afraid I am going to cut off our money. > 2. I am willing for my Ex to cut off our money. > 3. I look forward to my Ex cutting off our money. > > None of this makes any sense to me. What am I doing wrong here? Hi, Here is an idea that came to me: " I need my ex's money in order to support my family. " Seems like this might open up a new world of possibilities... I wish you good luck and the realization of prosperity (inside and outside), With love, Kheyala Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2004 Report Share Posted April 25, 2004 Hi, I have inserted some thoughts in your text below. > > 1. I am afraid I am going to cut off our money. Where I went with this was that if I am consumed with my fearful thoughts about not having enough money, I may miss other possiblities of getting money through welfare or working. I am sabotaging myself with my fearful thoughts and cutting off my money. > 2. I am willing for my Ex to cut off our money. > 3. I look forward to my Ex cutting off our money. > As I understand it these points in the Work refer to the possiblity of the THOUGHTS about your Ex cutting off your money arising again. The Work is not concerned with what happens in the world ONLY our THINKING about it. So I am willing and look forward to THOUGHTS about my Ex cutting off our money, because those THOUGHTS are stressful and they remind me to inquire again and find the truth. What is the worst that could happen if your Ex cut off your money? And would any of that be a problem, unless you were running a story about how things should be? I have found that reality is always kind, its believing the stories that make life painful. Loving what is, angel, and that would be you. Neo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2004 Report Share Posted April 26, 2004 " hippomania11 " wrote: > I think I need a little help. My situation is this: my husband is > divorcing me and trying to cut off support money. I am disabled and > have three medically challenged kids. I worry constantly about the > money situation, and I have done the inquiry, and of course I realize > that I would be a lot more serene without the thought " Ex is going to > cut off our money. " However, I am stuck on the turnaround. Here's > what I came up with: > > 1. I am afraid I am going to cut off our money. > 2. I am willing for my Ex to cut off our money. > 3. I look forward to my Ex cutting off our money. > > None of this makes any sense to me. What am I doing wrong here? Perhaps you are not allowing yourself the pleasure of giving your husband custody of your children. Do you really need your children to validate your story of how it " should " be? Let him take them with him.... Always an interesting turnaround to consider... Blessings - Jan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 26, 2004 Report Share Posted April 26, 2004 Dear hippomania, I can go with the thoughts that Steve and shared. To your turnarounds: what I find is: " I am cutting off my money " and " I am cutting of my ex's money " . See if you can find these. It is his buisness what he does with his money. It's your buisness what you do with your money. And you will be able to look forward to him cutting off your money, when you find a story that matches your beliefs and your situation. And, you can't do it wrong. Take care, Am 25.04.2004 um 15:15 schrieb hippomania11: > I think I need a little help. My situation is this: my husband is > divorcing me and trying to cut off support money. I am disabled and > have three medically challenged kids. I worry constantly about the > money situation, and I have done the inquiry, and of course I realize > that I would be a lot more serene without the thought " Ex is going to > cut off our money. " However, I am stuck on the turnaround. Here's > what I came up with: > > 1. I am afraid I am going to cut off our money. > 2. I am willing for my Ex to cut off our money. > 3. I look forward to my Ex cutting off our money. > > None of this makes any sense to me. What am I doing wrong here? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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