Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 > > > Reply-To: Loving-what-is > Date: Fri, 23 Apr 2004 22:30:51 +0200 > To: Loving-what-is > Subject: Re: Lyning > > simple. He is the one that has to lie to you in order to fulfill his > path. And *you* want to keep him from it? > I love so much of what everybody is saying on this list, but just now, this takes the biscuit! This is great! Thank you all and with love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 > Dear Lynda, > > what an exciting work! > > Am 23.04.2004 um 20:33 schrieb fun4u2dayfun4me2: > > > My ex husband shouldn't lie to me and continue to interfere with my > > life . > > Is it true? yes yes it is and the reality of it? does he lie to you > > and continue to interfere with your life? yes yes he does can you > > absolutely know this thought is true? no no I cannot how do I know > > because he does. > simple. He is the one that has to lie to you in order to fulfill his > path. And *you* want to keep him from it? > > > whose business are you in? his > > can you absolutley know what is best for his path to God? no no I > > cannot > > can you absolutely know what is best for your path to God? I do not > > know the answer no I cannot > > can you absolutely know you would be happier if you got what you > > want? no no I cannot know this absolutely > > what is it you think you would have? sanity a friend to depend on > > less fear much less fear peace faith in human nature again less much > > less self righteousness > You can get that from here. He should change and *then* you will be > happier? I don't think so. > > > how do you react what is the payoff? emotional pain uncertainity > > hysteria nagging > > what is the cost? peace in the moment reality loving what is LAA now > > in this moment present to reality > > where do you feel it in your body when you attach to this thought? > > gut wreching knot vocal cords strain voice becomes hoarse and shrill > > how have you lived your life attaching to this thought? obviously in > > denial of codependency > > how have you treated yourself? very very little self respect self > > awareness > > can you find a reason to drop this thought and I am not asking you to > > drop it? yes > > Can you find a stress free reason to keep this thougth? no no I cannot > > > > > Who would you be? other than the one free of the thought free of the > > emotional suffering in the moment concerning surronding the thought I > > DO NOT KNOW > You said it above: > >> what is it you think you would have? sanity a friend to depend on > >> less fear much less fear peace faith in human nature again less much > >> less self righteousness > > > How would you live your life without the ability to attach to the > > thought my exhusband shouldn't lie to me and continue to interfere > > with my life? In the moment noticing the stressful thinking allowing > > the thought the stressful thoughts to pass through unattached > > impersonal noticing not judging not condemning not dreading aware of > > my Self more and more each moment > > > > > TA My ex husband should lie to me when he does and he should > > interfere in my life when he does or not whatever my thinking > > shouldn't lie to me and continue to interfere with my life > > TA#6 I llok forward to the thought I welcome the thought my ex > > husband shgould not lie to me and continue to interfere with my life. > > and " I look forward for my husband to... " > > > Do you see any other TA's that could be as true or truer than the > > original? > > I shouldn't lie to my self about my ex husbands lying. True > > I should lie to myself about my ex husband's lying until I don't or > > not > > I shouldn't lie to myself I shouldn't interfere with my ex husband's > > life. True > > I should tell the Truth about all of it all of it now in this moment > > reality > > I should lie to myself and my ex husband should interfere with my > > life. True that's reality when it is > > > > Family-I post rarely however I appreciate any input you my see in > > this Work that could illuminate my experience of it which I say > > definitely needs illumination!! > Well, when does your husband interfere with your life? Can you think of > the one time it most annoyed you? > When did he lie to you? What time hurt you most? > > > Thanks > > Lynda > Love, > Thank you for the input. Food for thought today. My exhusband interferes with my life every time he refuses to pay the rent; everytimes he refuses to do what he promises me he will do everytime he says he will do something and he doesn't. Is this going somewhere? I am confused:) The time my exhusband interfered with my life that hurt the most is when I was married to him and found out he had $100,000 worth of liens against my home and had not told me and was ble to incure part of those liens when his name wasn't even on the deed and then stick me with them by using my lawyer that I had told specifically how this person could be and then the lawyer stck me too! Now that' s my story and I cannot seem to get over it after 13 years. Pathetic Lynda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 24, 2004 Report Share Posted April 24, 2004 > > > > > From: Olli 26 <olli_26@y...> > > Reply-To: Loving-what-is > > Date: Fri, 23 Apr 2004 22:30:51 +0200 > > To: Loving-what-is > > Subject: Re: Lyning > > > > > simple. He is the one that has to lie to you in order to fulfill his > > path. And *you* want to keep him from it? > > > > I love so much of what everybody is saying on this list, but just now, this > takes the biscuit! > > This is great! > > Thank you all and with love, > > Thank you for the comment and I would still like to be able to get some freedom from this piece in my heart . Lynda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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