Guest guest Posted August 15, 2004 Report Share Posted August 15, 2004 so get home from san diego today, and all my husband and i have done is argue. we were doing that before i left too- thought a few days away would help but it hasnt. he got mad becuase my mom bought me some new clothes. she did it because she is proud of me and happy that im in a 12. why is he acting like this? does he want me to be 250 pounds again? does he want me to not wear nice clothes? he is being so hateful and ive just about had it. he acts like i did something wrong by buying clothes- so i came home with 3 suitcases when i went with 2. he should be happy for me but instead he is acting like he resents me. i dont need this shit. ive worked hard to get where im at. im at wits end now. vicki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2004 Report Share Posted August 16, 2004 he acts like i did > something wrong by buying clothes- so i came home with 3 suitcases > when i went with 2.> vicki Vicki, I have another viewpoint. You sound like my daughter. She has a problem that affects everyone in this house: She buys too many clothes! You already told us you are a shop-a-holic. Now you come home with a suitcase full of new clothes when you know you won't wear them long. Our house is literally overflowing with clothes. It makes me mad because I can't have a neat house partially because there literally is no room for all these clothes and she won't part with any of them. That is the one good thing about her moving to England: I will throw out everything she leaves behind! By the way, she tries to SNEAK new stuff into the house! lol Marta Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2004 Report Share Posted August 16, 2004 Hi Vicki, I'm so sorry your husband is reacting this way. Unfortunately, like our other family and friends, sometimes husbands don't handle it well when their wife loses weight. Sounds like you need to sit his butt down and talk about it, without arguing. Try not to be accusatory. Just ask him to explain what's upsetting him so much and assure him you're still the same person and still love him. The new clothes may represent a new you for him. And that may be kind of scary. I'll be thinking about you! I hope you can get him to open up about it. Tracey > so get home from san diego today, and all my husband and i have done > is argue. we were doing that before i left too- thought a few days > away would help but it hasnt. he got mad becuase my mom bought me > some new clothes. she did it because she is proud of me and happy > that im in a 12. why is he acting like this? does he want me to be > 250 pounds again? does he want me to not wear nice clothes? he is > being so hateful and ive just about had it. he acts like i did > something wrong by buying clothes- so i came home with 3 suitcases > when i went with 2. he should be happy for me but instead he is > acting like he resents me. i dont need this shit. ive worked hard to > get where im at. im at wits end now. > > vicki Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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