Re: Re: Re: Digest Number 1290/Barbara

[Guest guest]

Dear Elli,

> So, would it be true to say that " projection "

> always goes along with negative feelings like

> anger or hatred? And when there are no negative

> feelings involved, there is no projection?

>

> For instance, if someone tells me that I am

> unkind or rude, that could well be true, right?

> It is possible that I really am unkind or rude.

> (In fact, I know that I am sometimes unkind and

> rude.) So, he didn't just " project " that into me,

> right?

>

> But if he is upset or angry with me, because he

> feels that I am unkind or rude, then he is

> projecting?

I don't know about him. I am the projector and I do the projection. He

may be projecting, he may not be. If I have a story about you

projecting, that keeps me from seeing how wise you are.

> Kind regards,

> Eva Elli

Love,