Guest guest Posted November 21, 2004 Report Share Posted November 21, 2004 FIDDLE!!! I just wrote a huge long " rant " about how annoying your Nada is- and then I lost it! It is too late for me to write it all over, but basically it said, " get far away from that woman! " She is so manipulative and she is really using your daughter to get you to do what she (Nada) wants. She doesn't need to go to church with you, she doesn't need to go to young adult activities. She is trying to be totally enmeshed with you. Maybe you are trying to do the " Christian " thing by letting her be so involved, but honestly, it is seems like it is a very unhealthy relationship. Even your friends are telling you that your Mother is treating your daughter poorly. You are right, she doesn't have her own life- be careful about letting her live your life. I know that this is all easier said than done. And I am just learning too. But just stand your ground and don't worry about being the " nice " one. Do what you feel is best for you and for your daughter. Don't be hoovered into Nada's FOG! Di. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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