Re: Caroline

[Guest guest]

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My own family, kids & sister aren't like that. Or weren't before I moved here

tho now I never see them anymore. It's only my husband's kids & himself that

were bad that way. But my brother, whom I've always trusted really did us dirt

too when he was administrator of our Mom's estate for her full care home

payments. He gambled away all her money & what she'd left to my sister & in

trust accounts too.

So that was a severe blow to us. Mom (96 now) never knew as she's got dementia

too bad to know. But she's had to be put into a state run nursing home now

because of it instead of the personal care home she was in before. I doubt

she'll live much longer either.

That was her whole life's work savings & retirement she & her husband, our

stepdad, who later shot himself, worked for. So can it very devastating when

things like this happen in families when we never expect it because our own

minds don't work that way at all. Like you, I'd rather hurt myself than any

family member. I've always helped them & took less than my share of whatever

grandparents, parents, etc left after they fought over it. I hate fighting. It's

not worth it. Life's too short for that. And people need people to survive too

much. Especially family. Get out while you can before the stuff hits the fan.

Because it surely will. Take care of yourself, you're really the only one you

can absolutely trust & depend on.

Blessings,

Caroline

[Guest guest]

Hugs!

If I lived closer I'd swing by & give you a hugs. I'll keep you in my

thoughts. Hopefully soon you'll hear something about a new doc and a better

solution

to your pain.

Sherrie

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[Guest guest]

Thanx so much, Sherrie. I could sure use some hugs. Your kind thoughts are

greatly appreciated. I will definitely find a doctor......on my own if I have

to, if my GP & her nurse don't come through for me. I'm getting tired of waiting

on them dragging their feet as if I'm not worth their effort. Sheesh! Their

attitude really gets my goat sometimes. Who needs this? I'm seriously thinking

of switching GP/PCPs too.

Blessings,

Caroline

Thoms13@... wrote:

Hugs!

If I lived closer I'd swing by & give you a hugs.

[Guest guest]

Hugs!

You are a gorgeous sexy hottie to me because here you are, taking the time to

be active in the group while you're suffering. The men that don't comment

just don't see the gorgeous thing you are. Skinny, fat, curvy, short, tall,

bald, crazy-haired, whatever! Anyone who can learn to live with life in general

without becoming a monster is gorgeous. Someone with strength to deal with

chronic pain is also gorgeous and sexy. Throw in a sense of humor and you have

the total package. That's you, a gorgeous sexy hottie. It doesn't matter if

a man tells you, know that you are.

I hope my message before didn't offend you. It wasn't my intention. It took

a very long time for me to see myself as more than a fat chick that things

happened to. I changed my mindset and made a point of finding something I liked

about myself and kept going until I felt better about myself overall. No one

else may think so, but I am a gorgeous sexy hottie to me.

Hugs and my ears and shoulders are available anytime you'd like to chat. :-)

I'm not flirting with you, BTW. :-) I will not hesitate for a second to

tell anyone -- man, woman, child, dog, cat -- how great they look.

I'm off to panic a little more about my appointment tomorrow.

Hugs & many blessings,

Sherrie

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