--old post 6-11 DSM-IV.

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Hi :

I'm confused -- is this entire post *your* story or excerps

from " DSM-IV criteria.... "

you said " reading this story is the first time I almost cried... "

and I'm confused if you mean the story below -- or one that

you read that is not noted here?

Thanks! Barb

> Reading this story is the first time I almost cried. Just a few

nights ago,

> maybe 2 weeks actually I had a very similiar account with my nada.

She called

> my house up and she was drunk as Hell, she was talkingn about

killing

> herself and saying my step dad was trying to kill her and was

poisoning her. I

> called the sheriif in her town and had them send a car over there.

They found her

> in her closet passed out drunk. She had completly ransacked her

room.

>

> my step dad was in the living room . The cops brought her to

the hospital

> and the next day she was brought to a pychiatric hospital. Then

the next day

> she trid to act as though she had never called me and I made it

up. well

> they did not believe that being that I am in Va and she in La how

at midnight

> would I just be pychic and know she was drunk passed out! Then her

next ploy

> was to act as though she " couldnt remember " what she had said but

would never

> say such a thing and that I, her evil daughter was just trying to

destroy her

> life by lying and making things up...She was convinced they had

kepy her in

> the nut ward because I was making secret phone calls to socoal

services ...I

> never spoke to anyone about her insanity other than when I sent

the cops

> there.

>

> well the next day after the cops came and took her I called and

spoke to

> my step dad for a couple hours. I feel so badly for him. She is

doing to what

> she did to my dad and to my sisters and I. She has been attacking

him like

> she does and she has been tryinmg to make everyone in his life

from before her

> believe she is such a great person and a victim of him!!! The sad

thing is

> that people who do not know the real her believe it.

> She even went after him once and when he pushed her off her

glasses hit

> her eye and she told EVERYONE that he beat her. but as soon as I

heard about

> her black eye I knew he prob was trying to fend her off. I know

her that

> well.

>

> well after she had been in the nut house for a week she called

me at my

> home with her accusations that I was making stuff up about her, I

am SURE she

> had people there with her to listen to her side of the story as

she

> confronted her " bad " daughter about screwing up her life.

> Then she tried to play the victim by switching to this small

pathetic

> wounded bird voice and talking about being bruised all over her

body as if to

> insinuate that my step dad beat her. She was NOT happy when I

point blank

> told her he did nothing to her if she was bruised it happenned

when she was

> ransacking her room all drunk!!!

> then she ( for the benifit of those near her on the phone )

started

> talking her proper phony english voice - the woman is from

Louisiana not Great

> Britain! - that I was lying or who ever told me she ransacked her

room was

> lying because if she was so drunk she couldnt have. well, when she

discovered it

> was the POLICE who told me she quickly changed the subject.

> Next she proceeds to tell me that I could cause her to lose

her job -

> she is a nurse, scary huh? - by having her put there, that I am

making things

> up about her and she wont tolerate it. Got to put on a show for

the audience,

> right.

> then she begs me to not mess up her whole life. I just had

enough at

> that point I told her, " YOU ARE MESSING UP YOUR LIFE. YOU CHOSE

TO GET DRUNK.

> YOU CHOSE TO CALL ME, YOU CHOSE TO SAY THOSE BIZZARE THINGS. YOU

CHOSE TO ACT

> LIKE A MANIAC ONCE AGAIN AND DESTROY YOUR ROOM> IF YOUR LIFE IS

MESSED UP IT

> IS YOUR CHOICES AND YOURS ALONE.

> Then she turns into the tearfull victim and blurts out, "

Fine say

> whatever you want! You are going to do whatever you want anyway

and the hell with

> me! " and hangs up. She runs when you tell her she is the reason

for her own

> demise.

>

> I was so fed up. I called her home number and left a message

saying, "

> Do not worry. I am not telling anyone about you. But after 24

years of

> dealibng with your drama I am fed up. I am DONE. Do not call my

home EVER again. Be

> a victim on someone elses time. "

>

> It felt good to say that and it feels better to not have her

in my life

> I feel so so sorry for my step dad. She has him living in hell.

He cant

> leave her because of what she does when he tries to. He did once

but she showed

> up at his house every night. He is afraid to leave now because she

will act

> like an idiot and cost him his job and everything dear to him. He

is holding

> out waiting for her to die from her health problems already so his

sentence

> can end. He is in fear she may kill him one day and knowing me

mother that is a

> valid fear.

> I left home at 16 after learning she was planning on murdering

me. I

> cant name my sources due to their fear she could flip and

retaliate against them

> but they were credible and I knew her well enough to know it was

true. The

> first time my step dad left her she held a knife to the throat of

my then 11

> year old sister and threatened to kill her if she kept destroying

her life.

> then she told my sister she would mutilate the cat my sister had

been feeding.

> She blamed the failures of both her marriages on myself and

the

> youngest girl. Not her no.....never. lol

>

> My sister told the councelers what my mother was doing to her

just as I

> had years earlier in a different parish. My mother was able on

both

> occasions convince the cops and councelers of her victimhood to

malicious lying

> children.

>

> Its just an all around screwed up situation. When that woman

finally dies

> it will be the most celebrated wake and funeral in history! Im

going to

> makes cakes and party hats... I will have a live band come in to

sing Ding Dong

> the Witch Is Dead!

>

> Until I pray and I wait in fear for the day she murders

someone just to

> prove to herself she can do it and she can make people believe it

is not her

> fault.

>

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