Guest guest Posted July 8, 2004 Report Share Posted July 8, 2004 I am not sure about your families, but the older generation of mine had a motto " If you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. " I know the old Thumper saying. They also had a belief that one should Never speak ill of the dead. Trying to break those 2 barriers is like trying to make the dead come back to life. It takes an act of God. Debbie Re: GrandNADA > > > > my mother always said she'd come back as a guppy in her next life > so she > > could eat her kids...I have no idea how her parents were as her > mother died > > when I was two and her dad died before I was born, but the stories > I hear > > about them ( from others in the family, nada never speaks of them) > they were > > normal... > > That is what I have heard about my grandmother's parents. All > accounts suggest her parents were " normal " , although both my > grandmother and her brother are strange. They had a baby sister who > was stillborn, but aside from that everything seems like it was > normal, no lingering childhood illnesses, traumatic events, etc. > Sounds like first generation nadas are always extra, extra disturbed, > and rarely there seems to be an " explanation " for the BP in them. > > > > > > Send questions and/or concerns to ModOasis-owner > " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " a primer for non-BPs, can be ordered via 1-888-35-SHELL () and for the table of contents, go to: > http://www.BPDCentral.com > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 8, 2004 Report Share Posted July 8, 2004 I am not sure about your families, but the older generation of mine had a motto " If you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. " I know the old Thumper saying. They also had a belief that one should Never speak ill of the dead. Trying to break those 2 barriers is like trying to make the dead come back to life. It takes an act of God. Debbie Re: GrandNADA > > > > my mother always said she'd come back as a guppy in her next life > so she > > could eat her kids...I have no idea how her parents were as her > mother died > > when I was two and her dad died before I was born, but the stories > I hear > > about them ( from others in the family, nada never speaks of them) > they were > > normal... > > That is what I have heard about my grandmother's parents. All > accounts suggest her parents were " normal " , although both my > grandmother and her brother are strange. They had a baby sister who > was stillborn, but aside from that everything seems like it was > normal, no lingering childhood illnesses, traumatic events, etc. > Sounds like first generation nadas are always extra, extra disturbed, > and rarely there seems to be an " explanation " for the BP in them. > > > > > > Send questions and/or concerns to ModOasis-owner > " Stop Walking on Eggshells, " a primer for non-BPs, can be ordered via 1-888-35-SHELL () and for the table of contents, go to: > http://www.BPDCentral.com > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2004 Report Share Posted July 9, 2004 > I am not sure about your families, but the older generation of mine had a > motto " If you can't say something nice then don't say anything at all. " my mother has broken this so many times, I can't count them > They also had a belief that one should Never > speak ill of the dead. Trying to break those 2 barriers is like trying to > make the dead come back to life. It takes an act of God. mother was just too selfish to talk about anyone else but herself..in good light Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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