Your Opinion Please!

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Hi All:

I am asking members of this group to give me their opinion.

What do you think I should tell other people who are

members of this group?

I have bought and read Understanding the Mother with BPD, and Stop

Walking on Eggs -- the suggestions there are very good and I HAVE

sucessfully applied them with some BPD's I know. However, I just

have NOT been able to do any of the " negotiating " etc. with my own

Nada. I just can't do it -- the whole thing is impossible for me.

The only way I can function is to not even talk to her or read her

letters. And that is what I am going to do from now on.

Do you think I should keep telling people: " Good luck working things

through, if I could do that I would. But I tried and it didn't work

for me? "

Or should I just not say anything?

I don't want to feel like I am making people feel bad who want to

work things out with their Nadas.

Any suggestions? Thanks

Barb T.