Re: Re: No more wondering...

[Guest guest]

I hate to say it but my nada, being catholic, would have done the same

thing. I also started going to a Baptist Church, and she claimed I had become a

religious fanatic! I never said anything to her about my experience, but she

assumed I was a zealot! She is always telling my sister (the good one), that she

just wishes and prays I will come back to the " Church " ! My sister has

remained catholic, but very rarely goes, unless nada comes for a

visit...believe

me ,religion is a big deal to her and it only makes me hate me more..c'est l'a

vie!

Jeanette

[Guest guest]

> She has to be in

> such control and when she doesn't get her own way, she pouts, cries and

acts

> like a 2 year old!

same with my mother

> and she opened my linen closet and yelled at me how

> messy it was! I then, proceded to empty the linen closet onto the floor

and said

> that I would now clean it and make it neat!

> Well, she took off crying and walked around the block, making me feel so

> darn guilty. (she really pissed me off, it was very unusual for me to act

that

> way). When she came back, she wouldn't speak to me, and when she was in

the

> bedroom I went in and apologized and went to give her a hug, and she

wouldn't

> let me hug her!!!!!!!!

we were to have Thanksgiving dinner at my brothers and his wifes house on

year. My brother had become a Morman ( for our Catholic upbringing) and

invided 2 Mormans from their church. Mother found out about it, whent into

a rage and stormed out. She was gone for hours. They finally found her at

the train station, she was going to go back home !! I say let her go , but

my brother had to uninvite his guests because of mother !!

Jackie

[Guest guest]

You know? My Aunts and family could never understand why my nada resented

me..I have always known she resented me, but never knew why. Now that I am 55

years old, I absolutely know!!! It doesn't make it any easier, but at least I

know. Now to leave on Thursday morning for my vacation with them is going to

be a real trip! The " good " sister and I are driving them to NY from FL...it's

funny, but when my sister (good) left to come to florida 22 years ago, she

was only 18, nada had a nervous breakdown! Never could understand that, as she

could have cared less when I left to come here 30 years

ago....Amazing.............life goes on...........

Have a wonderful day,

Jeanette