Guest guest Posted February 26, 2005 Report Share Posted February 26, 2005 Hi! About Love/quilt. Just a few days ago I recoqnised why I had a hard time taking my husband seriously when dating him - he told me he loved me, and I was just standing there and staring him - I did not know what to do! and what was it all about - I had learned the same lesson: love is quilt. Even now when we have already been married for 16 years, I rather tell him that I love him in my familys second lanquage - LOL my nada does not understand it - so I learned to use that lanquage differently, it's about real love. In the other lanquage love still does not exist, it's not really there. Sad and funny at the same time. BM > Hey , > > That reminds me of how my fada used to sign all his letters to me, after I > had been split bad, and stayed split bad, for several years: > > " In spite of it all, I still love you. Dad " > > Like you said, HELLO FOG! Even then I knew it was some sort of guilt trip > (this was 10 or 15 years ago) that was not normal. Had no idea what BPD was > then. > > Jeanine > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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