Re: daddy trying to get fresh with sitter. and other in appro...

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Sharon

My Dad tried to get fresh with some of the nurses aides that came to assist

and also my friend and neighbor. They would tell him that wasn't nice and to

knock it off. They handled it and weren't offended that he said or did

anything to indicate he was interested. Let the sitter take care of it herself

for

now. This too will pass.

As far as you and Donnie are concerned, DON'T ever stop showing your love for

each other both verbally and PHYSICALLY. Life is too short. There are other

rooms in the house that can provide privacy when Dad is in his room. The

couch for instance makes a nice place to lie down together. Some romantic

music,

a little wine and alot of love. Just my opinion. I could tell you stories

about stolen moments but I won't because they are part of my memories of my

hubby who has passed. I sit here smiling just remembering some of them.

As for moving, how does your Dad feel about leaving his home? You have to do

what is right for you and Donnie but you have to consider him also. I know

my Mom, in her right mind, would never leave her home.

I pray you find the answers you are looking for soon. God bless you and

Donnie for the wonderful job you are doing.

Hugs to you both

Jacqui

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jacqui, thank you so much for the moral support, asnd dad is very willing to

move to this new house, it is in same neigborhood, which is what he likes

best, to hear the blue angels practice every week. i have loved that property

for 10 years, and dad has known htis, and he knows and understands taht one

bathroom in this house is just not enough,. so for now at least he is very

agreeable he is just not agreeable to moving to tennessee where i could get the

health care that i need, so i just commute to nashivlle every 3-5 months aas

neeeded.

and by the way, donnie and i went to drive in movie last nite, dad was

asleep, tok my laptop that has dvd player in it ad parked in his truck. lol

giggling, and blushing

sharon m

a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!!

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Sharon

Good for you

LOL

Jacqui

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In a message dated 8/2/2004 11:10:49 AM Central Daylight Time, gaat@...

writes:

courage,

we are waiting for the appraiser to appraise the house, i havent seen inside

yet, hope to one day this week, i would like to get in side of it, and start

planning where to put things making it a lot easier for us when we move in, i

am hoping master bedroom is on opposite side of house, but i will have to

see, but eiether way we will have other house to disappear to, esp when dad is

asleep and not aware of us disapperaring heehheheeh.

take care and thanks for the moral support, hugs

sharon m

a smile a day keeps the meanies away!!!